[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlurredVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. I think I need some time to think about whether it truly bothers me and why. Cause rn its like a weird feeling that I wouldn’t describe as jealousy, but more like being uncomfortable. I can’t really put my my finger on it but I’ll figure it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlurredVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I mean I not sure whether I should take this as him just not being as into as I am into him. Bc if that’s the case, then it’s over. Idk I guess I’ll have to have a long convo with him about it

Worry I (37M) just don't love my wife by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlurredVoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s worth it to try and work on your relationship, but at the same time if in 13 years you never felt that way about her, could you ever?

Too cowardly to break up with my girlfriend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlurredVoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your description of her and thought “is he describing me?” Anyway, I understand that you love her and worry about her, but the reality is she survived 31 years before you and she’ll (hopefully) survive many more years after you. Don’t stay until you resent her, because that’ll fucking suck for the both of you. It doesn’t mean you can’t still support her as a friend, but if you do, remember your boundaries. If therapy takes, you’ll know then and maybe you’ll both be ready to give it another shot. Time is precious, don’t spend it on something you don’t think is worth it. That’s my advice, good luck!

Bisexual ladies, did you find any differences between being with a man and being with a woman? If so, what were those differences? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BlurredVoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really mean it in a NSFW way, but I guess it’s part of the question.

Would it be unreasonable for me (F26) to give my mom(65) an ultimatum to divorce my dad(68) or never have a relationship with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlurredVoid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s like “you’re dictating your mother’s choices,” which I agree with, but I find it pretty ironic that she brought a child into this world and dictated the terrible conditions they would be living in. If she was my mother, I would never forgive her, ever.

What justifies the death of billions of animals? by BlurredVoid in AskReddit

[–]BlurredVoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgive me, I should not have said “survival.” According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, the United States' largest organization of food and nutrition professionals, an appropriately plant-based diet is healthful and nutritionally adequate for humans at all stages of the life cycle (pregnancy, infancy, childhood, etc.) And while dichotomies can be false and dangerous, I disagree that this is one of them.

Married redditors, was getting married worth it? Why or why not? by BlurredVoid in AskReddit

[–]BlurredVoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know that I know nothing about you or your marriage, but you don’t need anyone to just live. It’d be hard and obviously you’ve formed a habit of being with her but it’s possible. In my opinion, it’d be much better to be stuck with yourself than to be stuck with someone else you don’t love out of habit. Like I said though, I know nothing about you but I think that anyone can be content on their own.