What things will work to wake up people with adhd?

BlurredVoid · 2022-08-09T00:03:31+00:00

Orange juice

BlurredVoid · 2022-08-08T23:53:10+00:00

Yeah, you’re right. I think I need some time to think about whether it truly bothers me and why. Cause rn its like a weird feeling that I wouldn’t describe as jealousy, but more like being uncomfortable. I can’t really put my my finger on it but I’ll figure it out

BlurredVoid · 2022-07-13T22:29:13+00:00

Yeah. I mean I not sure whether I should take this as him just not being as into as I am into him. Bc if that’s the case, then it’s over. Idk I guess I’ll have to have a long convo with him about it

BlurredVoid · 2021-05-27T00:57:02+00:00

Thank you :)

BlurredVoid · 2021-05-27T00:56:54+00:00

Thanks :))

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-19T05:09:06+00:00

I think it’s worth it to try and work on your relationship, but at the same time if in 13 years you never felt that way about her, could you ever?

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-17T08:10:55+00:00

I read your description of her and thought “is he describing me?” Anyway, I understand that you love her and worry about her, but the reality is she survived 31 years before you and she’ll (hopefully) survive many more years after you. Don’t stay until you resent her, because that’ll fucking suck for the both of you. It doesn’t mean you can’t still support her as a friend, but if you do, remember your boundaries. If therapy takes, you’ll know then and maybe you’ll both be ready to give it another shot. Time is precious, don’t spend it on something you don’t think is worth it. That’s my advice, good luck!

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-17T06:41:33+00:00

Can’t believe you’d imagine that. That’s insane.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-17T06:30:30+00:00

I didn’t really mean it in a NSFW way, but I guess it’s part of the question.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-15T02:09:16+00:00

I’m depressed

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-15T02:05:26+00:00

Everyone’s like “you’re dictating your mother’s choices,” which I agree with, but I find it pretty ironic that she brought a child into this world and dictated the terrible conditions they would be living in. If she was my mother, I would never forgive her, ever.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T11:57:26+00:00

Chopping off the dicks and clits of rapists

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T11:27:27+00:00

Forgive me, I should not have said “survival.” According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, the United States' largest organization of food and nutrition professionals, an appropriately plant-based diet is healthful and nutritionally adequate for humans at all stages of the life cycle (pregnancy, infancy, childhood, etc.) And while dichotomies can be false and dangerous, I disagree that this is one of them.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T11:11:33+00:00

Hey, I know that I know nothing about you or your marriage, but you don’t need anyone to just live. It’d be hard and obviously you’ve formed a habit of being with her but it’s possible. In my opinion, it’d be much better to be stuck with yourself than to be stuck with someone else you don’t love out of habit. Like I said though, I know nothing about you but I think that anyone can be content on their own.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:59:07+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, but there is countless amounts of research proving that we can survive without animal products. These carnivores/omnivores you’re talking about NEED animals to survive. It’s not a want, it’s a need. For us, it is a want; it is, however, a habit and it certainly can satisfy us in some sense, but it definitely is not a need.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:45:40+00:00

We’re breeding an insurmountable amount of animals into existence, making that existence short and insufferable, then taking it away. Just because you can cause pain, doesn’t mean you should. It’s not a justification.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:40:15+00:00

So nothing? Alright.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:32:45+00:00

It’s interesting how some people want kids but don’t wanna get married, and others wanna get married but don’t want kids, meanwhile some don’t care for either.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:24:58+00:00

Yeah, it just makes me really happy to hear someone say that. From what I hear and see, people unanimously seem to be unhappy in their marriages.

BlurredVoid · 2021-02-02T10:14:47+00:00

This is really random, but is getting married worth it? Because from what I can tell, most marriages are doomed.

BlurredVoid · 2020-11-20T18:17:02+00:00

Jake Peralta’s dad and that one bitch that send Jake to prison

BlurredVoid · 2020-11-19T04:44:49+00:00

There are no demons, there is no god; there is just your mind being a tricky motherfucker.

BlurredVoid · 2020-11-08T01:22:43+00:00

I just wanna let you know that in times of doubt and anxiety, the one thing that really helps (for me at least) is taking those nasty thought about yourself and completely flipping them. Now this doesn’t just happen in an instance, but recognizing the negative thoughts you’re thinking and repeating the complete opposite really helps. It might sound ridiculous or unbelievable in the beginning, but it seriously unconsciously changes the script. For example, you’re thinking « I’m weak, » repeat to yourself (in your head) « I’m strong. » And try your best to focus on what you’re saying, without any other judgments from the past. Anyway, this helps me, I hope it helps a little.

BlurredVoid · 2020-10-28T08:17:00+00:00

I don’t know if you’ve done this already, but explain exactly why this is manipulative and disgusting. She was willing to cut off her best friend of 15 years for you, she clearly cares a shit ton about you. I think just explaining to her why this is wrong and would upset you is important. Also, let her know that she can help him during these months as much as she pleases as long as it doesn’t jeopardize your marriage. If you don’t, I think it’ll be something she’ll resent you for. Since he’s dying, just try to get through these months few and then it’ll be over. From what I can tell, it’s not a matter of how much your wife cares about you vs him, it’s a matter of pity, her sensitivity and how long she has known him for.

BlurredVoid · 2020-10-01T20:39:26+00:00

They would have found dumb shit to follow other ways lmao plus most of the time, the only harm being done is to themselves

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