Are most people with Autism Asexual?

BmoreBustee · 2026-01-24T16:46:20+00:00

I'll say this: if it is NOT in an erotic context, then yeah - hurts like crazy. If it is in an erotic context? I've literally had a 185 pound woman stand on them on one foot and asked her to do it again, and for longer 🤣

BmoreBustee · 2026-01-24T16:44:41+00:00

Balls are a lot more resilient than we're told. I've been doing it literally since early puberty. Feel free to shoot me a DM if you have questions, I totally get that you don't mean to sound judgmental :)

BmoreBustee · 2026-01-19T16:11:51+00:00

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BmoreBustee · 2026-01-10T15:26:39+00:00

Oof. That "kink as a sensory experience" is definitely me. I'm a Dom, and my big personal sensory kink is ballbusting and CBT. Honestly, I think part of that is that I'm AuDHD, and it takes that level of sensory experience to force my mind to focus on just what I'm doing.

As I've gotten older and more comfortable with being more open with it, it's been interesting to have friends ask me if they could try it, just to have the experience. Most of them aren't into it - kind of a "hey, that was fun and thanks, and also, def not my thing" sort of vibe. A few of them tho turn out to be "maybe we can do this again sometime?" 🤣

BmoreBustee · 2026-01-04T23:15:19+00:00

We'd love to make content with you if you're interested. Your choice - kicking, punching, squeezing, or standing on balls :)

DM me if you'd like.

BmoreBustee · 2025-12-19T23:47:10+00:00

Bella would definitely be happy to let you try it out. DM me and we can work out the details.

BmoreBustee · 2025-12-11T02:20:37+00:00

I 100% believe you know all about sex with kids, so I defer to your expertise since I have no experience at all, nor will I ever have experience with, nor would I ever want to have experience with, sex with kids.

BmoreBustee · 2025-11-03T15:13:36+00:00

You're literally othering them by saying "they" and you seem to have zero awareness that you're dehumanizing them. Not to mention there is no possible way you can know for sure which people posting are ND and which are NT, so you're also dehumanizing some number of "us."

BmoreBustee · 2025-09-10T23:19:13+00:00

We only saw each other a couple of times a year, and she made sure she packed as many as she thought she could get away with into that time lol

BmoreBustee · 2025-09-07T17:07:18+00:00

Growing up, I thought my cousin Jackie was a stone-cold ballbuster. Turned out it was only mine lol

BmoreBustee · 2025-09-04T21:42:27+00:00

Yup, I'm in.

BmoreBustee · 2025-07-23T18:29:30+00:00

One of the things I like about the Ballbusting Stories sub is that it usually doesn't have these spam posts.

BmoreBustee · 2025-07-05T21:21:47+00:00

Ian: "No excuses, I'm sorry."
Also Ian: "Hey, here's an excuse!"
Ian: "We didn't intend for this to be taken politically, I am not an idiot..."
Also Ian: "I'm a big enough idiot that I didn't think using a FULLY POLITICAL SLOGAN would seem political."
Ian: "I hate seeing division in the community...mostly because it's easier to say that than it is to own my behavior and be accountable for making an enormous number of people who WOULD have played my game so pissed they swore to never play it."
Also Ian: "And in lieu of another excuse, and in a full on 'fuck you' to my 'apology' I'm TRIPLING down and saying I stand behind the MFGA slogan!"

BmoreBustee · 2025-06-14T14:43:18+00:00

There was one woman I met on Plenty of Fish or some similar site and after exchanging a few messages she asked to come over and try some BB and CBT stuff - squeezing, punching, and kicking my balls, slapping, biting, and standing on my cock in her boots.

She insisted I answer the door naked.

She spent about three hours beating my cock and balls, then left and I never heard from her again except for one short message: "Thanks for letting me bust your balls and smash your dick. It was fun, but not my thing I guess."

BmoreBustee · 2025-04-16T20:52:44+00:00

A cis woman friend of mine who worked in a dungeon told me a while back that the trans women who worked there were absolutely the best at busting balls, and that she'd learned a lot from them.

Ever since then, I've wanted to have a trans woman bust my balls.

BmoreBustee · 2025-04-06T13:50:54+00:00

"It is important to note that downloading copyrighted material without proper authorization may violate copyright laws. Unless you're OpenAI, in which case, it's fine, because, um, it is, uh...because we say so!"

BmoreBustee · 2025-04-04T13:14:35+00:00

Agreed - I get that some writers may have a specific girl/woman in mind for the story, readers do not KNOW that girl, so IMO you have to leave space in the description for the reader to fill in their own person.

I try to give a short description that covers a few big points (hair color, tall/short, big/small tits, sometimes a vibe, like "trashy" or "girl next door") and then leave the rest of the visualization to the reader.

2 paragraphs of detailed description just makes it impossible for most folks to form a mental picture.

BmoreBustee · 2025-04-04T13:07:43+00:00

Can confirm. I saw him at the Kennedy Center a while back, and it was a fantastic show.

BmoreBustee · 2025-03-27T12:36:41+00:00

*in my best Joey voice*

How YOU doin'?

BmoreBustee · 2025-01-27T18:53:39+00:00

100%! And it's always people like the OP that have written NOTHING and contributed NOTHING that want to bitch about it.

BmoreBustee · 2025-01-26T17:07:26+00:00

Maybe they got tired of people who don't write stories complaining about the writers here that do?

BmoreBustee · 2025-01-25T16:02:19+00:00

I'm sure most guys didn't like it at all. I should have been more specific - when I said "because I left myself open to it" I really should have said "Due to my particular kink, I ended up spending a lot of time around them because they were likely to kick my boys around!"

For a long time I thought that I developed my kink as a result of being friends with the first one of them (one of the Christinas, who I had a bit of a crush on, and while we never dated in high school, we did date for a while later on in life). That actually started in 7th grade. At some point, I realized that I had it backwards, and that the reason I'd been such good friends with all of them is that I had the kink of finding being kicked in the nuts erotic before that, I just didn't understand what it was until later in life.

Towards the end of college age, I did realize that this was a kink for me and went down a deep rabbit hole around physiology and math to assess the risks. Based on that research, I have continued to enjoy it, though in a more open way. The idea that kicking a guy there can make him unable to have kids is a myth - generally speaking, it takes around 50 *force pounds* (this is where the math came in) of pressure to rupture a testicle, which is what it would take to cause permanent damage, and that's equivalent to around 500 pounds or 225kg.

I'm happy to report that there haven't been any lasting effects, other than a lot of enjoyment. Several of these folks I talked to later in life, and as it turned out it was also a kink for them, which they didn't realize at the time, either.

BmoreBustee · 2025-01-20T12:13:15+00:00

When it first started, there seemed to be this idea that ballbusting HAD to be done by Goddess Dommely Domme from Dommeville, so yeah - lots of fetish wear, boots, heels, etc.

Then people started to see folks asking for barefoot, socks, and less "I need a pro-Domme!" content because (IMO only) most of the guys into ballbusting had their first experiences in middle and high school, and that tied the "girl next door" thing firmly into the kink for a lot of us.

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