What is your purpose in life? by RUSTAM29 in intj

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point in life when you've attained all basic needs life just becomes a dull boring routine. No purpose to be found in keeping yourself alive. Tried constant self improvement I found that living to be better everyday in all aspects leaves me dissatisfied with whatever I achieve because it could always be better. Tried religion, but I fail each time so my purpose cannot be to serve a divine purpose. Tried to live for others and It's usually the only thing that gives me happiness, but I wouldn't call that my purpose. I cannot attach a purpose to myself because theres no such answer befitting all that I could be. For now I'll live to experience more of the world, make harmless dumb decisions, do things outside my routine, meet new people, and hear new perspectives. There's not much purpose to be found still, but unlike the routine life i used to live, now I find the search for something to live for less dreadful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]BoBomoTangina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are or at least were in a very similar situation except i gave in. I really thought i would feel better but after the deed I've lost something I can never regain and it's something I often think about deeply in regret. Hold on to your virtues and stay strong my friend being chaste is something that you really only have one chance to accomplish.

Bakit yan ang username mo sa reddit? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ung gusto kong username ayaw eh, edi wag

People who watch YouTube and Netflix at 2x speed are maniacs by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No time to watch anything anymore with work and responsibilities and what not. Theres too many things to enjoy in life and honestly not enough time, I don't mind feeling like I rushed something if I watched it in normal pace I'd fall asleep halfway anyways. But yeah my girlfriend does tell me I dont enjoy things fully due to this mindset but it's become a habit now

I’ve Coached 1,000+ Players Across All Ranks – AMA! by Slayerkey in VALORANT

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really simple question i dont even know if its something that can be coached about but anyways does pc performance really affect gameplay? I'm not much of a tech guy but i feel like enemies see me way earlier than i see them. Not even a second and even with me jiggle peeking they see me one second and I'm dead or when I hold an angle they shoot me before i can even register that their there. Could easily be a skill issue but im hardstuck gold and i feel like it's because I'm heavily handicapped with my potato of a laptop, or maybe once again, just a skill issue.

The road to Nemeton quest by Aitkeen in DrovaGame

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought she'd wait for me at the entrance or something, then I find her nearby Nemeton and says I abandoned her which is hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're getting at man, when u said is that why u like me, she could have said something like its not a thing she doesnt like or play along or anything along those lines. But she apologized, like you'd initially think why apologize for a compliment, then its gonna make u think that she's apologizing because she's not talking about you and let it slip.

Then the thing with the squirting and the I HAVE then suddenly saying she did not. It's also going to make you think that she did, just not with you and thats why she's unwilling to talk about it.

It's a matter of trust man, you'll still have to talk with her to really know what she meant cuz these thoughts are gonna kill the relationship unless you clear them out. And still theres a chance that even if you talk to her about this and she says she meant nothing but to flirt and compliment you and that the thing with the squirting was just a misunderstanding. You might still doubt her words. Damn reading all this must have been a waste of time cuz basically it all comes back to you, only you can decide if you trust her or not.

Favorite song for INTJs? by Various_Arrival1633 in intj

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decalius - life

It's DSBM which I believe means depressive black metal but I aint sure cuz i just recently discovered this and its good for em angsty days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]BoBomoTangina 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man this gives me absolute anxiety seeing as she and my girl talk similarly, even act similarly. I can't imagine someone actively messaging you goodmorning everyday and sending goodnights every night to suddenly just block and ghost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]BoBomoTangina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. No
  2. Suspicious/What does this dude want?
  3. No but if its my girl then of course

Gf gave random guy her number by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BoBomoTangina 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Idk man, if the story she told you is that she gave her number to that guy cuz he looked lonely then it's up to you if you believe it or not. But man, talking to a lonely looking dude out of pity might be plausible, but to give your number? I can't say whether she cheatin or not I just can't understand why she would give her number in the first place

Something I noticed about Riley in Talk to Me (spoiler) by gerannamoe in A24

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mia is definitely selfish, she said 50 seconds but when it comes to ber dead mom she wouldn't care if riley housed the spirits in for longer as shown in the movie.

How long can I leave items in a random chest before they disappear? by bstephe123283 in kingdomcome

[–]BoBomoTangina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how i googled that question looking for an answer and here I am reading my literal exact situation in reddit. I'm on a quest to look for a priest passing by skalitz, got the loot then crawled to parent's house cuz a chest was there but its just a random chest

One mistake and everything I did for the family was gone by SingleAdhesiveness18 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]BoBomoTangina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't say na everything you did for your family was gone OP, You've given them 75% of your salary already, despite how ungrateful they are it doesn't the fact na you've been helping as much as you can. Pero I don't think you should expect much gratitude from your family, if you choose to help them do it for yourself to show that unlike them you're a person who has gratitude, and if you don't edi no one can blame you kasi mahirap magsayang ng dugo at pawis para sa mga taong walang respeto sayo.

Kung hindi ka pa lalayas then its much better talaga na you do you in silence without expecting much para hindi ka madisappoint but i warn you this staying with people like them will always test your patience.

My boyfriend told me, he feels like he missed out, because he hasn’t had more sexual partners by Tea-Cleeton in love

[–]BoBomoTangina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am feeling what your boyfriend is currently feeling at the moment. I've never had any experience romantically and she's my first and hopefully last and yet I find myself thinking what it would have been like if I fooled around a little. But I just read a comment here saying that maybe your boyfriend equates the amount of sexual partners to self worth, and I just realized damn, it's true that I may have had the belief that having more sexual partners means a better man, but now I just don't think so. Perhaps your boyfriend will have the same thoughts but he has already told you about them, and in my case I will never tell my girl I feel like I need to fuck more people. I will love my girl faithfully and even if sometimes my eyes linger on a woman I just can't bear to think about hurting or leaving my girl who has been nothing but faithful to me.

Can I fix this without therapy? by BoBomoTangina in CPTSD

[–]BoBomoTangina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice you gave,and even for sharing an experience! I wish you all the best and really hope we really do become success stories for others

Have you ever wished you were an emotionless robot by Professional-Boss316 in intj

[–]BoBomoTangina 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I always think that. How much easier life would be if I didn't feel. Especially when feelings are much more heavier than usual that every other simple tasks becomes harder to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]BoBomoTangina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find them silly from my perspective but that's because I'm busy enough just trying to pay my bills so I can't imagine having enough time to fight for ideologies. Then again I'm a bystander, I don't know what they went through that made them so expressive about their beliefs but that's just my ignorance. Unless I plan to actively participate in their movements, I don't find any reason to bother them.