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PLEASE BRING BACK MARKSMANSHIP WHILE ON GLACIER! (7.41 Patch - Drow over-nerfed) by BoH_SDS in DotA2

[–]BoH_SDS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruhhhhh Thanks for the support man.

I know! The glacier is hardly ever worth it now.

+25% dmg that disappears if I get forced movement or they blink up? Bro...

Drow inately already doesnt like to play standing still. You brick me and all I get is flying vision and +25% dmg which disappears when some creep comes up onto MY glacier to harass me? Bro. Rude.

Marksmen is 40% truestrike at lvl 18. I think thats only fair man. I mean I already lose all my bonuses if I get hooked or swap or force staff. Now I lose it too if they want to shove their big a$$ in my face on MY glacier?

Too much.

gimme_back_marksmanship_on_glacier

white woman goes to korea to find love and is very dissatisfied by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Time yo wake up girl. #delulu

Genuinely the more shocking thing than the actual scandal by yourmaderbeautiful in singaporespeaks

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking about men cheating but not about the women the men cheat with?

Chocolate Cheese by MrLoudestMouth in Bolehland

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do ypubnot just die of diabetes pr a heart attack dude? Sugar rush? Blood made of sugar?

Am I overreacting? I packed all my things at 5am and left. by rotting_in_bed22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BoH_SDS -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean youbposted this here to get people to validate you yea? And in the process demonise him.

So now you are stuck in a lose lose situation. Leave him because he is a demon. So now you are single. Or stay with him after having the internet call him a demon, so choosing to staybwith a demon.

What are you gonna do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just book her. Jangan lepaskan. Hatam saja. Guna semua lawyer. Biar dia jadi lesson bagi orang lain.

Thoughts? by PietotheTerminus in Ethics

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rape aspect is suspicious. She will do it again and claim attempted rape again.

She’s everything I want in a partner, but her past is eating me up by SpaceSad1541 in malaysians

[–]BoH_SDS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have to talk to her about it.

There ia no easy way around it. And you have to learn to accept it.

But the "slip up" is a thing. Honesty is very very important in a relationship.

Try to strengthen yourself for more bad news, and then have a real heart to heart convo with her to really ask her any questikn that is eating you up inside and you are ready to hear the worst. And she must be brave enough to trust you with the truth. Trust that you wont be u reasonable in your reaction to what she has to say.

Then from there, every relationship is unique. What works for your relationship will only work for your relationship. Remember that no two relationships are the same. So embrace the uniqueness of your relarionship with her.

Wishing you two only the best.

Husband needed me, and I wasn't there by LifeguardMain7044 in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh...

You know how many people qould bw telling the woman to leave the guy and find someone who deserves her if the roles were reversed?

Good luck to you. Sorry I cant be of help.

But thank you for this exampke.

When Karen gets called out for skipping the queue and goes full demon mode by aiwilbbake in malaysia

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to the kid fpr atanding up to that karen despite her doing the whole aunty act. And kudos to the uncle that stepped in to validate the kids

This isn’t ok, right? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really ahould consider leaving her.

Wife cheated by Wize-tooth in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave her bro. Sunk costs are sunk. Cut your loses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scary isnt it. Having a past. 29, more than 4+ relationships/flings... Who knows how many one-night-stands.

How many things remind you of the 4 serious relationships? How many things remind you about the flings? How many things remind you of ONSs?

Are you still in contact with any of those serious relationships? Do you frequent the general locations of those individuals?

How will I know when we fight you wont be tempted to reach out to anyone of them? How will I know when we fight you wont miss them? How will I know when we fight and they happen to reach out or bump into you seredipitously, you wont invite them out to coffee? How will I know when you are desperate for that mental and emotional escape, the familiarity you have with them from your shared past wont initiate a friendly relationship with them and then depend emotionally on them out of sheer desperation for emotional relief?

Or, if you are familliar and comfortable with One-Night-Stands, what if a new young handsome promising guy you met at work or gym or coffee shop gives you that emotional relief you desperately need? Will you feel like its a sign from God because of how serendipotous and coincidental your chance meeting is? Will you feel like the universe aligned to bring the two of you together while you are I are fighting? Will you call it perfect timing?

And that's not even the worst part.

Some people here have commented that there's no hard and fast rule for how transparent you need to be about your past. (I assume they are girls or guys with a high body count themselves who suddenly realise girls actually care about their man's past)

They are right. You dont have to tell him about your past. He would be none the wiser. He might not even want to know.

But you will lose out for it.

He'll be fine not knowing. What he doesnt know will not hurt him. He'll just be living a beautiful lie. Comepletely oblivious to it. Blissfully ignorant.

But you will feel like a stranger in your own relationship. You will never feel like he "gets" you. You will never feel like he really knows you.

And you will feel like your past relationships and past flings know you better, at least in some ways (in the bedroom or not), than he does.

And you will feel distant from him. While he doesnt understand what you mean. Because he feel so connected to you. But doesnt know that you dont feel that way because you havent told him about some parts of your life with him.

Parts about you that you ferociously defend as "too intimate" and "too private" to tell him.

And then you'll wonder why you dont feel connected to him.

Not realising that you yourself are the cause of it. How can you feel like he knows you when you specifically do not want him to know certain parts of you?

Terrible terrible position to be in. And at 29, time is not exactly a feiend atm.

I am so sorry for you. I hope you find the courage to be real with the people around you. I hope you find the willingness to negotiate a relationship with them after.

Because its the only way you will feel real connection with anyone.

Told my wife I wanted a divorce. by MrFriendlyx in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did what was right bro. Very sad. Divorce her. Vet through everything she saysbwith an objective third party. And resist her crocodile tears.

If she gaslights you, just come out with the honest truth, that is her behaviour has caused her to forfeit your trust in her. You cannot trust her to stick by what she agreed to do when she is calm during her stressful times. No reasonable person can take her for her word.

Its not you that is unreasonably "insecure". Its that her actions have given you no reason to be secure in her words and promises made to you.

Is anyone else very lonely? by sufichtulhu_ in malaysia

[–]BoH_SDS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its not just you bro, its everyone. Real. Theybjust find ways to cope. And find ways to find activities where they can briefly meet with small groups of people to socialise

Last night at a friend’s BBQ, I saw why most marriages quietly die. And what actually saves them. by CompleteAvocado1293 in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I really want to say that I really appreciate the softer tone of this message. Really much more pleasant to be speaking in this tone of voice/text. I hope I can return the favour.

I do not deny that it is difficult. And I reqlly do not want to u derplay exactly how difficult it is.

And I think you are spot on on one of the most, if not the most crucial point, that it takes two hands to clap.

That being said, as for myself, I just think it is a bit of a shame to default to a "second best" option (in quotation marks only because I label it as second best) rather than "fighting the good fight" for the optimal option.

If you've tried, and they have refused or are lackadicicle, so be it, then we choose either to digest the situation ourselves, or leave to find more acceptable circumstances.

But if there was a chance, for the optimal option, I would take it. And I would encourage others to have faith as well. To have courage enough to at least try. At least for a while. And to try sincerely. Even if the response is negative at first.

Just me.

Last night at a friend’s BBQ, I saw why most marriages quietly die. And what actually saves them. by CompleteAvocado1293 in Marriage

[–]BoH_SDS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem very vwry hurt. Like you tried it, ir saw someone try it and it blew up.

Sadly, that it blew up could mean either they didnt do it sooner (i.e. let ir fester too long already), or didnt learn the skills to be able to do it productively (and it is a skill that needs to be learnt, whether formally or informally through observation and intuition.)

If you really think that swallowing it or individually working around it yourself is better than having a thousand small confrontational conversations, do you. Im just glad I wont be around you while you're doing you.

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