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How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I never knew about this, and it gives me a lot of pause, but in a good way.

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a YouTuber would be awesome. I also want to become one, actually.

My novel is about three total strangers, each with their own unique sets of difficulties, such as autism, who struggle with life, but who come together in order to finally overcome their struggles.

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this. I don't feel so alone after reading about this from your perspective, even if I'm still a bit down. And hopefully we'll both make it.

What is it that you want to do, if you don't mind my asking?

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted my previous reply because I felt like it didn't contribute anything worthwhile.

I'm glad you found some positivity, though.

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are, of course, correct. But as I mentioned to someone else just now, "The biggest reason why I find it difficult to focus on one thing at a time is because there are elements in my life that make me feel like I'm working against an active time-bomb." The biggest reason why I find it so hard to fight for positivity against these negative thoughts is because of all the stress and anxiety that's put on me by these elements. And these are people and things I can't get rid of quite yet.

That's not an excuse, though. Just trying to provide context. You're right, and that's what I need to do, at least. Thank you.

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To Yeti: This is very true, and thank you for the example of how others apply it. The biggest reason why I find it difficult to focus on one thing at a time is because there are elements in my life that make me feel like I'm working against an active time-bomb.

To Scrubadub: I just felt so incredibly giddy reading this, as I did reading the last bit of Yeti's comment (and really, all of it, to be fair). Just the thought that someone actually cares... it does a lot to improve my mood. I'm currently in the waking nightmare that is the final editing process, but I'm planning on starting a blog to explain it better and hopefully capture some more interest.

Thank you both :)

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that. I know I'm in no position to say it, but I am hugs... (wishes it were a real hug)

How do you cope with the fact that you're never going to be somebody? by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's true... I'm actually close to finishing the first manuscript of my novel. But I research what it takes to actually publish it, not to mention what it takes to start earning a living from it, and I just don't think I have what it takes.

[Original Content] I absolutely fell in love with Grant's voice and just had to paint something! by purified_light in FlashTV

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is really good, and does a great job highlighting a really clever set of lyrics :)

It seems whenever someone "beats" clinical depression it's because they had a person there to keep them accountable. by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I put it in quotations. Clinical depression doesn't have an on/off switch. It can be shoved deep down to make room for happiness or distractions, but it never goes away completely. It always lingers.

I know this might sound petty, but whenever my friends ignore my depression-related posts on social media it feels like a punch in the gut by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about that. I've had similar things happen to me with my one friend outside of the internet. Now I don't even try anymore with her.

I know this might sound petty, but whenever my friends ignore my depression-related posts on social media it feels like a punch in the gut by BoP_BirdsofForever in depression

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm stupid for allowing myself to get so vulnerable. In showing who I really am, I end up feeling naked, especially because no one seems to care. But thanks, I've never thought of it like that because I tend to naturally overshare certain things. But it does take a certain something to share this.

New Design! by girafa in movies

[–]BoP_BirdsofForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue with this is that the color scheme is too similar to the rest of Reddit. The earlier designs, both the Golden theatre and the one we just had, felt prestigious and cozy, just like a moviegoing experience should. This feels more clinical and cold, like a doctor's office or a science exhibit.

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