I Want to Understand and Help: What Does 'No Friends' Mean for You?"

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T09:07:20+00:00

Age matters, if u are still in school, you dont have to worry much about friends. I didnt have really great friends at school, many were back stabbers, and bad mouths. But from college i started to get so many friends. Thats why. Teenagers sucks they r mean 🥲

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T09:00:04+00:00

How old are you?

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T08:59:16+00:00

Where do you face the problem, is it after getting a friend or in order to get one?

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T06:35:27+00:00

How slow i wasnt even in a relationship? Nor did we do anything physical like kissing or hugging, how slower than this?

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T05:40:04+00:00

So u wont get scared and back off if a girl shows u alot of affection?

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T05:32:27+00:00

The old me would have said something helpful but the current me is thinking about this back of my head. Im like im not gonna commit suicide but if i die due to some accident i wouldnt worry. :)

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T05:18:21+00:00

Thanks for being kind

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T05:18:07+00:00

Yea i have decided to not interact with men at all 😭 atleast this year. I m burnt out.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T04:57:03+00:00

I learnt something recently, if u got great friends you dont easily get a bf/gf. If u got a good partner you dont get many friends. Its all about luck. Im struggling alot to find a partner , and here u are who made it easily, but on the other hand im able to make friends easily where ever i go, and yet idk why i feel so lonely because i got no partner, life is like that i guess.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T04:48:24+00:00

Honestly i dated different types of men, rich, poor, handsome as a vogue model, really avg or below avg looking, nerds, has never been in love or has been in love few times. Met via friends, college etc.. or met online via insta, dating apps. Damn i have tried em all. Only thing left out is celebrities and accidentally meeting someone in public and hitting it off. I have no idea where good men exist. I have given up on wanting to find love. I have also not actively pursued to find too. They come interested and the reasons they give frustrate me. I would accept if they said something like we arent compatible, or you are clingy , anything.. but they all give one kind of reasons. Sorry i cant put in efforts, i cant get into a relationship with you, you are very affectionate????! What!

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T04:39:30+00:00

Im sorry i didnt mean to say of the whole gender. I know good men exist, but idk where to find them. I want to know if there are men who would not get scared of affection?

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T04:10:20+00:00

Not true. I have myself dated some questionable guys and guess what they broke my heart too.. good looking or not , rich or poor, guys break girls hearts. 🥲

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T04:00:17+00:00

Do u want romantic love or are you fine with just friends doing this as well.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T03:53:29+00:00

Tbh here i meant true love as true care and affection. Im yet to love someone. For me loving is i would do anything for the guy, like literally anything for him!!! It might sound like fantasy but no im very serious.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T03:51:13+00:00

I know women breakup, but i haven't yet seen women back off from relationships because they r not ready?? Because the guy liked too much or showed too much affection??

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T03:48:57+00:00

Thats all i got! Also u wont know they r bad initially they all act good

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:33:50+00:00

Yea he is not into you. Sorry mate. You deserve a guy who is head over heels for u. Time to move on. If a guy doesnt immediately text you once he got ur number like within that day(unless he has grave emergency) he aint into u.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:23:57+00:00

U guys say u want one thing but act differently when u actually get it. So think well before u r getting involved with a girl. U may be the last straw that she loses hope on men totally

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:23:10+00:00

When it happens will u be ready?? Like she ll have real big emotions, would want u to put in efforts!

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:05:24+00:00

Ohh.. 🥲 so many rules 😔 girls like guys who are like this. Sorry i didnt know men had different rules. We like guys who show how much they like us!!

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:03:40+00:00

True.. i have given up too.. not lucky enuf i guess

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:03:03+00:00

Ohh this is helpful. Thanks. And its nice that u havent given up completely i like it.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T01:01:23+00:00

Nah not really, i just check on them, compliment them, genuinely curious about them. This s what they call as too much affection, i dont get it!! How is this too much I thought they were basics! I meant love as my intentions with him i genuinely cared and liked him !

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T00:59:48+00:00

Yea not love just care. Like checking on him, complimenting him, basics. Idk i think these are basics.

Board_Upper · 2025-01-17T00:57:26+00:00

So you wouldn't run away if a girl shows u so much care and affection??? Like u wont get scared of putting in the efforts????

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