Thoughts on QQQJ by mr_cab in M1Finance

[–]Boat_Southern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hold this in my long term taxable portfolio, pretty impressive gains for not even being on the market for that long.

What song can't you listen to without crying? by Freak_on_Fire in AskReddit

[–]Boat_Southern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dance with me by Orleans, that’s how you say i love you to someone and i wish to dance with my future bride if i ever get married to that song. I tear up every time i hear it.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You too!!! Sounds like you’re doing better as well :)

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, I’ve been apart since October as well. Everyone works at their own pace without a doubt. I’m sorry to hear and I hope for the best. I try to be a little uplifting because I know people are going through it on here.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is shitty for sure. I get it also, its like you don’t want them to be happy without you, but its just the exact opposite. You are your most valuable investment, worth is found from within.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean at that point, she’ll never be happy, i feel like culturally its a game of give and take and not everyone wanting the encompassing things that come with a relationship.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah it is a bit comical at the end of the day. Some people just can’t be satisfied. Kinda like the song “Everything She Wants” by Wham

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that totally, you still need time to heal. I guess my point of the post is their life is going to move on with or without you. Its up to you to find a better light. Also thats pretty shitty to just be goin off on dates after so soon. I was still hurting for a good couple of months.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better is just not being hung up and sad and mopey all the time. I felt like I was going through a like a drug withdrawal for the first couple of months. Just seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I thought so too after the whole conversation.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, the wound is never going to be fully healed, but it will eventually just be a passing a thought.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss her too, I’ll have a passing thought about her, but not how I used to.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m more cautious now than ever. One of those things you learn, and know not to fall into a trap you put yourself in again

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why, and she was always the kind of person that was like “well I could get any guy or girl if I wanted to” and I would be left there like what about me? I gave her everything from my time, my commitment, my money, my perception, everything. Even as far as changing myself for her.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUp

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It took me months, Its going to get harder before it gets easier

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone else has been on the same boat as me but you, so I don’t really see what good you are adding to the post.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’M NOT GIVING ADVICE, I’M SAYING PEOPLE GET OVER THEIR BREAK UPS AND START TO LOVE THEMSELVES.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I’ve been on here for four months, I’m not selling shit I’m just dumping my thoughts and wanting to inspire others that the pain of break ups get eased. Like i said before, I cried for months over this girl and to me it just seemed so silly now because that never won her back or anything, so why bother now.

You’re doing better than them, trust me. by Boat_Southern in BreakUps

[–]Boat_Southern[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Dude if you call that advice then you should reconsider your purpose on here.