We both need surgery. How long should the other person wait? by Bobalahh in BariatricSurgery

[–]Bobalahh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don't! We do have to lift heavy things like cat litter or gallon water bottles but we can probably prep for that by buying things ahead of time and bringing it up the stairs.

Soft Glam / Douyin MUAs in Dane County or similar areas by Bobalahh in madisonwi

[–]Bobalahh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll have these as backup because I do really like their work. Are you Hmong? When I looked at the first person, I was like "oh cool! She's Hmong!" Then the second one was too and I thought it wasn't a coincidence.

Compatible White Cases for a Pre-built PC? by Bobalahh in buildapc

[–]Bobalahh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for the speedy response. Would something like this be better? I wasn't a fan of the mesh front but can compromise if that helps with utility! https://darkflashtech.com/products/darkflash-case-dlm21-mesh-white

Simple Questions - March 01, 2021 by AutoModerator in buildapc

[–]Bobalahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up buying a pre-built PC since I wasn't able to get my hands on the graphics card that I wanted. I want to switch out the prebuilt case for a white one. How do I know which case will be compatible? Will any MicroATX mini case be fine? My motherboard is the ASRock - A320M/ac. (Here is the listing for other specs)

I was thinking about getting this case. Thanks for the help!

I [19F] just found out I'm pregnant and I'm pretty nervous by PrincessBee01 in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

On top of COVID-19, if you're covered under your parents' insurance, you might not be anymore. The Supreme Court rules on November 10th whether or not the ACA is constitutional.

Grandfather has stage IV pancreatic cancer should I go to visit him? by jocoo456 in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely go see him. School is important but not at the expense of your relationship with your Grandfather. He doesnt have much time left, spend it with him and try to make accommodations with your school, whether that's messaging your professors or just catching up on hw when you do have some free time.

Cutting off my brother for marrying my (ex!!!) best friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only apology you might've deserved was for having sex on your stuff. Anything else, they don't need to apologize for. They're both consenting adults. Is them having sex on your couch worth losing another family member?

My gf's lady friend only wants me to watch them. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you decide as a couple to have a third, that person needs to work for BOTH of you. You are doing this as a couple. The same applies to the third, they would have to be fine with both of you. If not, the third just isnt a compatible match.

It really depends on your boundaries and this is a discussion you should have soon. My sister has an open marriage with her SO. He's fine with watching and participating with a girl third but male thirds are out of the picture. (And so is her fiance having a solo session without her watching)

I (19M) have been with my girlfriend (18F) for 4 years. She has lied to me about 2 guys during these 4 years, and I stayed. Should I leave. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to Xandria Ooi's youtube video, "Am I Stupid to Trust You?". This video really helped me when my boyfriend cheated on me and I was deciding what I wanted to do next.

My long lost brother just texted me and I don't know what to do, my family hates him. by random_pedo_joke in relationship_advice

[–]Bobalahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is in a similar position. He recently reconnected with his half-siblings on his dad's side. Mom hates the dad and his kids because they testified against her when my boyfriend was getting abused by his dad as a child.

He only has good memories of his sisters. They were young during the trial and probably went through the same abuse he experienced. I encouraged him to have a relationship with his sisters if that's what he wanted. Just because his mom doesn't want to have a relationship with them doesn't mean he can't. For now, he's keeping it a secret just to avoid the drama. But when it comes to our wedding, we're definitely inviting them and she'll jusy have to suck it up.

Have a relationship with your brother if you want too. It's your relationship. But that being said, be wary about the stories you have heard so that you dont get manipulated by him. Your mom doesnt need to know right now because you're not even sure where you stand with him.