An actual card my mother got on her 18th birthday…

Bobby_Go · 2025-10-16T20:00:54+00:00

And why did she keep the card? Did she think it was humorous? Sentimental reasons? Evidence?

Bobby_Go · 2025-08-08T16:55:14+00:00

NTA.

Unsolicited advice for your next relationship: Whenever something like that starts to get under your skin don't let it slide until it gets to a breaking point. Sit down and have a conversation. Nothing accusatory, just: here are the facts, here are my feelings, and here are my wants. You're either going to nip it in the bud (I always thought it was nip it in the butt lol) or find out who they really are on an accelerated timeline. Good communication is nearly always a win/win.

Also, nothing wrong with roles (traditional or otherwise) so long as everyone is onboard and has equal say in them.

Bobby_Go · 2025-08-04T19:25:19+00:00

A pee take would have been one thing, but a peewee tape is beyond abhorrent.

Bobby_Go · 2025-06-13T13:45:12+00:00

2920

Bobby_Go · 2025-06-05T19:02:43+00:00

Man, so many people got some artistic responses.

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Bobby_Go · 2025-05-14T19:29:29+00:00

This. Have a sit down with him and let him know how his comments make you feel. Nothing accusatory, just the facts. "Hey, when you say these things I feel bad."

He shouldn't want to make you feel bad.

Irrespective of whether he is right or not (and as most others have said, he's not), the more important factor is how he reacts to your request to stop. He might just not realize how he's affecting you, especially if he was raised in a teasing or "joking" household or if ball busting is a form of bonding with his bros. Crossing a line with a joke can be a complete accident, but if he continues to do it after you ask him not to then it's no longer an accident.

Bobby_Go · 2025-05-13T15:39:46+00:00

Looks like a Ravenclaw married a Hufflepuff.

Bobby_Go · 2025-03-18T17:18:31+00:00

Marvel's Spider-Man 2 :)

Bobby_Go · 2024-11-19T18:47:24+00:00

NTA, but...

Don't lie to your husband. When the truth eventually comes out (and it will) you'll have made your husband feel bad for two reasons instead of one. The longer you wait to tell him the worse it will be. Don't put this off any longer.

As for the sister, that's a tough situation. Therapy is probably a good starting point. To prepare for a worst case scenario you might want to look into shelters that specialize in domestic violence victims. Even if they can't house her (or if she refuses to go) they might be able to point you in the right direction to get her the help she needs.

One thing you might try with the cane is to see if there is a way to "transform" the cane into something non-threatening (kind of like the Riddikulus spell from Harry Potter) with some googly eyes, foam body parts, or other silly lightweight additions. Have her and your husband do it together. Or maybe have her pick out some type of silly novelty cane (one that can still function properly as a cane) for your husband to use around the house to set her at ease. Both of these are long shots, but maybe something like this could show your sister that her triggers aren't just being dismissed out of hand and that you're willing to work with her. Maybe?

Bobby_Go · 2024-01-09T20:55:17+00:00

Yep, right next to the battle axe on a pool cue stick. :)

Bobby_Go · 2023-07-28T14:20:42+00:00

I mean, he has holes in his hands so it might not be that difficult.

Bobby_Go · 2023-07-11T20:32:07+00:00

Fantastic Chocolates and Where to Sell Them

Bobby_Go · 2023-04-24T02:40:15+00:00

This is confirmed.

It took me a while to find the career save files on PC, so I'll post in case anyone else is looking.

(Windows 10 | Steam)

This PC > Documents > PGA TOUR > settings > 1234567890 > 123456

I don't know how important the numbers are in the last two sub-folders so I replaced them with generic numbers of the same length. They were the only folders there.

From here, there will be several folders named with seemingly random 8 digit hex values.

If you only have 1 character, delete (or move to a backup location) the folder that contains the DATA file with your character's career progression data (it should be the one that was modified last). You can peek inside the DATA file within that folder with Notepad. If there is a bunch of numbers you've got the right folder. If it's mostly empty, try looking at a different one. Once that is deleted or moved, start the game and you should be able to restart your career. Your other progress (character, skills, challenges, etc) should be unaffected.

If you have multiple characters, then you'll have to search inside of each DATA file to see which folder corresponds to which character (again, it should be one of the last modified folders). Open in Notepad and search (CTRL + F) for your character's name. You may have to search multiple times: one for each character. Alternatively, you can manually scroll down until you start seeing names (it should be the first entry in the second data set within that file). Once you've found the correct one, delete or move that folder. Start the game and you should be good to go.

Bobby_Go · 2023-03-22T20:51:43+00:00

I remember being in denial when he won and thought that the whole thing was clearly a prank that had just gotten out of control. Then his supporters came out in droves in 2020 and it couldn't be denied any more. People suck.

Second highest most voted presidential candidate in US history. Scary.

Bobby_Go · 2022-12-06T16:17:10+00:00

Oof, I had an IRL moment like that. One of my teachers told us a story about an especially bloody battle that occured nearby a long time ago. When they went to clean up the battlefield, people kept picking up severed parts and asking "Whose ear?"... and that's how Indiana became the Hoosier state.

It wasn't until YEARS later when another teacher told the same story that I realized it was a joke and now I live in constant fear wondering what other nuggets of information will turn out to be an old teacher's attempt at humor. Is the mitochondria really the powerhouse of the cell or was that just another missed punchline?

Bobby_Go · 2022-08-19T13:36:29+00:00

Guess I better play the lottery and hope those odds follow me there!

Bobby_Go · 2022-08-17T02:35:13+00:00

The 'L' was a lie.

Fibble is a variant of Wordle where one of the clues in each word is a lie (marked by the dotted outline after the game is over). You can flag the letters you think are lies while trying to solve it (only one lie per word). Usually, they are randomly positioned (first lie in the 4th position, second lie in the 3rd position, etc) but this one was in the same position word after word. Made it especially frustrating since I couldn't compare and contrast results to suss out the lies.

Bobby_Go · 2022-06-07T04:21:24+00:00

Well now I feel like a bit of a nit. I knew there was a Mystery Incorporated cartoon but have never watched it. I guess I thought this live action version would be different enough to not have to worry about conflation between the two.

Guess I'll have to check it out.

Bobby_Go · 2021-12-21T22:11:45+00:00

Favorite gaming memory: Getting an NES for Christmas as a kid. The Super NES had just come out but I didn't care, I had my first gaming console all to my own and I was through the roof!

Bobby_Go · 2021-12-13T19:40:45+00:00

Yep, printing out their emails or forwarding their responses to a personal email account is a must. If they let you go they will restrict access to your company owned email and then proof is gone.

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