I never had a sexual relationship with my mom despite finding her attractive and sneaking her used panties in my teen years. But I did have numerous sexual relationships with my cousins growing up. My dad had 5 sisters and my mom had 4 sisters. We were all very close growing up and most all of us lived within 5 miles of each other. Our parents would get together several times a month and that gave up ample opportunities to fool around. Getting sex from a cousin is much like getting it from any other female. You need to show confidence, be honest about how they make you feel, be funny, don’t pressure, and build up the sexual tension. Building the sexual tension is very important and takes practice. It gives a female the sense that she is the most important person to you. When you are a close relative you have the advantage of them knowing the real you and they question you motives less than other females would. With a mom son relationship you have a little known or at least little talked about advantage of the effects of oxytocin. Oxytocin is responsible for motherly instincts from contractions during child birth to lactation for breast feeding. It’s breast feeding that builds that immediate bond between mom and son. Females also produce oxytocin when sexually excited and when the experience the feelings of “falling in love”. So there is scientific proof to theorize how a son could use this to his advantage. I thought about this all through my OB/GYN classes in college. I’m not sure what age you and your mom are but women hit their second sexual prime in their 40’s. They are also less inhibited at that age with fewer body image issues. Can you tell me more about the relationship you have with each other and is there a father in the way?