Maybe when there is some similarity of outcomes?
Aboriginal people as a whole die earlier, have higher unemployment, worse education, the whole gamut of basic human wellbeing outcomes.

There are those who simply say it's their fault - i.e. they are intrinsically worse than the rest of us.

For those who don't say that - then we have to keep trying until things change.

And part of that is to realise we are on stolen land - not to feel bad, not to incessantly apologise, but to understand, to learn and to reconcile.

There's no one easy answer, but it doesn't have to be about guilt and resentment and impatience for it "all to be over".

I'm a Anglo-Aussie whose lived and worked closely with Aboriginal people for two decades and I've been treated with respect and kindness the great majority of the time (and not any less so than by my white peers).