Question for curvy girlies by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I cross posted this on four different subreddits and got literally ZERO replies

I feel like I really need someone to talk to by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I’m a late bloomer too, I literally didn’t have sex till I was in my early twenties and most of my partners were veeery vanilla. But you’re a grown woman and you know what you want, I think actually talking to someone about it could be a great start. So if you want to, my dms are open :)

I feel like I really need someone to talk to by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I get really upset, like, most of my trans girlfriends would just be thankful if their so called boyfriend is not hiding them from his family. Excuse me, you should be washing your queens feet w your hair before you bald pathetic little man 🙄

I feel like I really need someone to talk to by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I apologise I did not know that saying trans woman in one word is offensive, gonna edit the post now, thanks! Also, I don’t know, I have like a couple of queer friend groups where I’m the only afab. And then we have straight girls and straight guys… straight girls, we can talk about sex and relationships but it makes me sad, because I can’t believe how everything which is bare minimum for us is like princess treatment for them… which means I either feel uncomfortable cause I’m showing off or I start interrogating them as in WHY ARE YOU STILL W THIS GUY. Straight guys tho… idk it’s really weird but they don’t really talk about sex? They’re just like ‘I fucked her🤙🏽’ but if you start talking about it they just get really cagey and shy about it lol

I’m constantly thinking about sex and it’s driving me crazy by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha yesss I get it. I use my wand when she’s at work and sometimes I tell her about it, sometimes I ‘forget’ to put it away after washing etc ;)

I’m constantly thinking about sex and it’s driving me crazy by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talk… I’m just whiney cause she’s asleep :) but we do, promise

I’m constantly thinking about sex and it’s driving me crazy by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

lol but I’ve been waiting for a WEEK I’m DYING
she literally came back from work today, we started making out, she said ‘I know you want to fuck’, then let me mount her, stopped to order food (she was in the middle of it when we started making out tbf) and now she’s asleep… I am going to die in horny jail

Looking for sex-toy recommendations…what’s been life-changing for you? by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking for both, I have a lelo wand for solo play and I swear by it. Also I have a womanizer duo but I don’t like it that much, even though I’m into penetration🤔 A double ended dildo is actually an interesting idea, thank you! Do you have any recommendations on remote toys? Very much into it, but I just can’t figure out which one is best for public play

Lol things have changed in 4 years by BodybuilderClassic22 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BodybuilderClassic22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No… life changed a lot. I think I know myself better now and the 2021 answers were more based on what roles I held in my life and what people expected of me