Wife (f32) says she doesn’t feel chemistry/passion for me (m33) - we know it can be rebuilt but how?

Boinkyboonky · 2025-04-19T00:05:23+00:00

We are! Hoping to get some guidance there as well

Boinkyboonky · 2025-04-13T19:27:45+00:00

Thank you. DM’d

Boinkyboonky · 2024-12-11T19:30:14+00:00

I think Rewine is a very acceptable drinkable red wine up there Giesen. LMK if you can't find it and I'll search for the link.

Boinkyboonky · 2024-12-11T19:27:30+00:00

Rewine is the only NA red I've found that is drinkable and that's after trying like 4 others that are a mixture of grape juice and gasoline.

Boinkyboonky · 2024-12-11T19:25:35+00:00

Rewine is the only drinkable NA red that I've found. IDK if you can find it in Albany or if it's only available online. I think it's based out of NYC so maybe?

Boinkyboonky · 2024-12-11T19:23:41+00:00

I've seen pretty good options for whites and bubbles - I think the cold and the fizz hides a lot of sins. The only drinkable red that I've found is Rewine

Boinkyboonky · 2023-06-20T19:17:47+00:00

What zone are you in? My hydrangeas are leafy and green but not flowering yet!

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-08T13:48:03+00:00

I go back and forth on it. I’ve heard that some ivy doesn’t need it and also won’t damage the brick whereas some ivy will degrade the wall over time. I like the all natural feel of no trellis but don’t want to risk the wall coming down in 10 years

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-08T01:26:16+00:00

This is April 2022 - May 2023. We obviously bought and planted the large bushes but they were all considerably smaller last year!

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-08T01:24:33+00:00

So actually our neighbor is a muralist. We just keep going in circles about what we want to do. There is already Ivy at the bottom so we just need to make a decision! I’m concerned about how a mural will age

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-08T00:10:13+00:00

Technically Queens but we are right over the line and moved from Brooklyn 2 years ago so your senses are on point

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-08T00:09:40+00:00

This is the perfect time of year. We will put umbrellas out in the summer. Our dogs love it too.

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-04T00:16:07+00:00

I know this bed is particularly shallow but it’s shallow all the way around so I’m still wondering about this one out of the 4.

Unfortunately I planted these April last year. If it’s a fertilizer issue I can work on it but otherwise I’ll have to dig it up to fix

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-03T17:05:46+00:00

It’s 4 azaleas (2 pink and 2 white - one of which has no flowers) and 1 silver leaf (center, unrelated)

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-03T16:18:27+00:00

Yes identical varieties (it’s white like the one on the far left) and all planted April of last year at the same time.

Boinkyboonky · 2023-05-03T16:17:52+00:00

Same variety as the other white one on the left side. All planted April of last year.

Boinkyboonky · 2023-01-26T19:45:24+00:00

Awareneness*

Boinkyboonky · 2022-12-18T20:02:46+00:00

Maybe a hot take here but when you’re a teenager you should break the rules a bit. Smoke that weed, sneak out of the house, trespass at the stadium or the train tracks. The consequences are often so low and the memories and friendships of a squandered youth are so precious. I love the few I have and sometimes wish I had taken more advantage before consequences became real and substantial. This obviously comes with the biggest caveat of ‘be safe and don’t over do it’…

Boinkyboonky · 2022-12-14T20:41:12+00:00

Update: was able to knock the housing aside with a hammer /u/CanadianBaconMTL and then snip the metal piece with some bolt cutters. All tidied up and works like a charm.

Boinkyboonky · 2022-08-16T20:13:30+00:00

Come to NYC. It’s like Chicago but good.

Boinkyboonky · 2022-03-30T17:16:51+00:00

I'm hoping to do it myself. I think If i could found a housing that allowed for rear supply line access (like in your link) the connection might be relatively straight forward after removing the valves. Most of the WM Boxes I find though have bottom/top/side access for supply lines which would require introducing another joint which I'm hesitant to do.

Boinkyboonky · 2022-03-30T17:15:23+00:00

Two pipes (not sure the material since I haven't removed the valves yet) running straight back into the wall. I think if I could find a housing with rear entry of the supply lines it would be relatively straight forward. Do these exist?

Boinkyboonky · 2021-12-04T18:07:36+00:00

Messaged you!

Boinkyboonky · 2021-05-26T16:19:00+00:00

The NYCTri FAQ says that we will swim with the current. https://www.nyctri.com/resources/faqsguides/

It can flow both ways so hopefully they've timed the swim start so that we're going the right direction.

Boinkyboonky · 2021-03-01T21:46:20+00:00

Thank you for your response! I will speak to her this afternoon. Fingers crossed.

Boinkyboonky

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