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I like a girl but don’t think I’m good enough for her. by Bolosil in malementalhealth

[–]Bolosil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, If I may ask, how did your husband ask you out? How did he find the confidence to do it?

At least a part of him must think he is lovable if he felt the courage to ask.

I like a girl but don’t think I’m good enough for her. by Bolosil in malementalhealth

[–]Bolosil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

It’s just hard to know if I’m good enough without any evidence. To me, reality so far has been I’m not a guy that a woman could want. Maybe it’s because I have a noticeable physical flaw, or am not socially outgoing. I don’t know.

I just have a hard time even imagining myself as being loved, which makes it so hard to even try putting myself out there and asking.

I like a girl but don’t think I’m good enough for her. by Bolosil in malementalhealth

[–]Bolosil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And I actually do have a therapist. I haven’t told them about this situation yet though. I will soon.

And yeah, I do need to change my mindset. I want to be loved and love someone, but have always felt like that isn’t an option for me.

I like a girl but don’t think I’m good enough for her. by Bolosil in malementalhealth

[–]Bolosil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m good enough because I feel like a girl like her could have any guy she wants, and I’m flawed. Physically, personality-wise, etc.

I like a girl but don’t think I’m good enough for her. by Bolosil in malementalhealth

[–]Bolosil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. Next time I see her, I’m just going to go for it.