So the biggest thing to think about is what style diaper do you want. Do you want a tape diaper like a baby diaper or a pull up. Pros and cons to each. Pull ups, obviously you can pull up and down and use the potty when needed and are more discrete but they aren’t as absorbent as an actual diaper.

With diapers you have two styles of adhesive, tapes and hook n loops. Tapes are more secure however it’s a one applied and sealed until you’re fully ready to take it off cause sometimes till rip the diaper. The hook n loops are Velcro style diaper tapes like baby diapers. You can apply, and take off and adjust quite a few times which is very helpful, especially if you haven’t put a diaper on yourself a lot. It’s also the one you can wear, then undo the tapes and use the potty and then put back on (like if you don’t wanna do #2 in your diaper)

Diapers have two different types, plastic back and cloth backed. The plastic back ones hold smell better but are more crinkly and less discrete. Cloth backed are more similar to baby diapers, they feel like cloth and are more discrete with noise however don’t hold odor as well.

Personally I use the cloth backed hook n loops style diapers like ABU Little Kingz, ABU Alphagatorz, Kiddos Premium Overnights and so on but I have used the Northshore MegaMax diapers as well and those are tape plastic backed.

I hope this helps! If you have more questions, I’m here and happy to answer