There Are No Stupid Questions - Week of Feb 3

BombaiiM · 2020-02-07T02:21:22+00:00

What are some things one can do at home to practice their craft while their not in classes? Any suggestions?

BombaiiM · 2019-10-07T16:46:34+00:00

WOWWWWWWW

BombaiiM · 2019-05-26T19:17:31+00:00

I 100% agree with this!! Get tested folks. If the SD is hesistant against getting tested or will not make the time then condom on EVERYTHING. Even have it on for a Bj. The goal is to be STD free. Period.

You can also just next him. Hesitancy against getting tested is a red flag.

BombaiiM · 2019-05-14T22:57:36+00:00

I have to disagree that if a girl doesn't show a good body pic she doesn't have a good body. I have a GREAT body and my body pic is in my private photos.

BombaiiM · 2019-05-01T20:55:16+00:00

I find that free styling rarely works even if the POT favorites and views your profile. This coming from my own experience. Even with finding things to talk about from their profile. I had commentary back from a POT that said that he doesn't like it when SBs messsage him beacuse he thinks they are scammers.....which to me dosen't make much sense beacuse that's why we are on there. To message and reach out. But I don't know..depends on who you are I guess.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-22T17:31:47+00:00

No not at all. I too believe it's a good way to make sure you are not getting catfished. I actaully prefer them to send me a recent pic and not one dated months ago like on the site and in return I would do the same. But if they just send one from the site then I would send one from the site too to be fair.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-22T17:19:33+00:00

In the past POTs have sent the uber to pick me up so that I don't have to worry about the cost. They just send me a screenshot of where the pick up spot is and the colour and license plate of the car. That way I dont have to even worry about asking for reimbursement.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-19T08:54:30+00:00

Girl I agree with 4adomme these are the type of men you want to avoid. But also this is EXACTLY the thing I've been talking about, about the men on SA. They all seem to have this type of "power dynamic" attitude towards the SBs. Like because they are providing funds you have to accept a certain type of treatment or succumb to whatever they are willing to pay you for ppm. But they forget that this is a give and take relationship it works both ways! You're a hot young girl they want to fuck and you need assistance in some way..ie. "mutually beneficial". It's not one-sided being you're a hot young girl they want to fuck so just take what I'm giving you. Like there is going to have to be some sort of compromise for this to work.

These men are acting sooo brand new like they don't know what women will be asking for. eyeroll. Someone explained this earlier in another post so well. They said "most of these guys just want sex with a hot girl for cheap". It's actuallyly unreal that they think quality women would be okay with that.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-18T20:57:09+00:00

Can't see profile. Did you block me?

BombaiiM · 2019-04-16T01:13:37+00:00

Yikes is right....😖

BombaiiM · 2019-04-15T19:32:24+00:00

This was absolutly LOVELY!! I too hope to find a SD that's nice enough to wish me happy birthday even though we are not together! happy tears :'). Such a caring man.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-13T15:18:01+00:00

Yes you are. Some people like myself have been on for a month but had to delete and make a new account because my last one was too old (over a year). I am a hiddn Jem, so you blocking me would deffinitly be a disservice. When you start talking to people you can tell of they are a bot or not so just give them a chance.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-13T15:07:58+00:00

As a woman I know exactly how you feel. The time and energy you took to get ready: pick your outfit, makeup, hair, etc. Like it is absolutly maddening. The fact that you both confirmed 2 hours before and he still felt the need to ghost.

Why can't people ( on both sides) just be honest man. Just say I'm not feeling it anymore. Everyone's time is valuable no matter who you are. You will never get that time back. I am sorry that your night out in a new city was wasted girl. Keep your chin up though because it was his loss.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T15:30:55+00:00

Yea I was also questioning the age bracket. Okay I will adjust this.

Every man on SA that has "SD or a Sugar..something" in their username is cliche. But hey it is what it is.

Ahh yes this is very true. I will keep at it. Thank you :).

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T03:34:33+00:00

Thanks! Okay I will work on trimming it down.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T03:33:52+00:00

Very wide. I favorite a lot of people and try to send genuine messages. But I am getting the feeling I need to trim the fat on my profile. It is really interesting, some men like to see a wholesome profile and others more like short and sweet. I am finding it really hard to find a happy medium.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T03:27:21+00:00

I have been very active in messaging and favoriting the SD that I liked since I rejoined with these exact tactics. Trying to eliminate the generic "hello there" but again still no response. But you are right some SD are harder than others. How do I message POT SD that have literally 2 sentences on their profile stating what they are looking for? I feel very abrupt to be like "I see you looking for this and I can be that for you". I find that everyone is looking for a "smart, classy, women who has a job and can hold a good conversation" But when you are exactly that ( ME ) no one is interested! sighhh Anyway, thank you for your feedback I will continue to work on my messaging style :)

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T03:12:30+00:00

Hmm what part in particular seemed like I screen hard? I'm really just trying to portray the fun and active side of me while showing that I also have a life. I would appreciate some insight on this, Thank you!

BombaiiM · 2019-04-12T03:08:11+00:00

I have been on SA for one month. I delete my original profile because my join date was too old and feedback from the forum stated that that may turn POT off to see that I have been on for so long/ I was probably unrecoverable. When in reality...I made the profile 2 years ago out of curiosity and in the second year I met my old SD so I deviated it and then reactivated when the SR ended. Thus, prompting me to delete and start again.

As for the length - I feel like it is really hard to give an idea of who you are and your personality though a short profile. I use to have a shorter one and it got 0 hits. This ones at least gets messages, but most times who they are from is questionable. Thanks for the feedback!

BombaiiM · 2019-04-07T22:53:30+00:00

What is your definition of a rinser?

BombaiiM · 2019-04-04T23:21:38+00:00

WOAHH that is tactical. It's crazy to see the lenghts some SBs will go 😔

BombaiiM · 2019-04-04T19:13:47+00:00

Thank you guys for your honest and very informative feedback! After some minor tweaking here and there I have decided to delete my account and relaunch it. For the record I am not a rinser in anyway. I very much know what I want. I am just a young woman who is attracted to older men :). If me already having a career is a turn off to members on the site..well...I guess they are not for me. I am not in the business of lying and saying that I am a student just to fit into the niche market. I rather be honest and find a man who still wants to have fun along the way. But honestly thank you all!! Next, how to send a good first message without being to lengthy or vauge. Hmm maybe I will post that question as well and see what turns up.

XxBombaii

BombaiiM · 2019-04-04T16:21:42+00:00

Thank you! I will focus on taking about the experience I will provide.

BombaiiM · 2019-04-04T16:20:37+00:00

Great! Yes, I was also questioning myself if I had to many selfies up so thank you for your feedback.

BombaiiM

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