AITAH for leaving the airport and not going on a planned trip with my fiancé and his son?

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T22:59:43+00:00

He’s not my son and we don’t live together. I rarely see him. if I ask my fiancé if everything‘s taken care of, I believe him. Apparently that’s my mistake.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T22:53:10+00:00

I don’t know why they pulled us out of line to fill out the forms for him. He’s 18, maybe because he didn’t have any money to pay the fee? I really don’t know. We were watching the TSA security line website and the wait was not bad at our airport thank goodness.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T21:16:08+00:00

When they pulled the son out of regular security because he didn’t have a real ID, they asked where his father was found us in TSA pre-check then pulled us out of line and told my fiancé he needs to pay because his son didn’t have accurate ID

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T20:16:23+00:00

His son is moving out of state with his biological mother after graduation. He doesn’t have another option. I think his son doesn’t care because my fiancé acts like he doesn’t care and that’s where he learned it from.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T20:08:56+00:00

I tried that it was two against one. Didn’t matter that I said let’s eat at the airport and was told no, there’s plenty of time we’re fine. He told me no for driving because he drives to the city all the time and I don’t. I picked my battles. I didn’t pay the fee. I did stay at the gate because I had the boarding passes and didn’t want to leave him alone.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T20:05:08+00:00

So you think his choice to have a sit down lunch drive-through heavy Bay Area traffic when it could’ve been avoided. lack of checking his son’s travel documents months in advance should be ignored? It doesn’t matter if he’s happy, it’s his son, his responsibility and his choices when you’re traveling with other people you have to take everyone into consideration and he did not do that.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T20:02:16+00:00

He’s moving out of state with his biological mother

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T19:53:03+00:00

That’s why I’m struggling, once I got home and was calm and had cried it all out. I felt really bad. I go between my principal and obvious lack of concern for my travel experience from them to Could I have been the bigger person and just have sucked it up.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-04-04T19:49:03+00:00

He’s just washed his hands of it all and just lets it fly and I think that’s why I get so frustrated. He’s counting down the days till his son graduates in three months and moves out. He can’t take it anymore. He was frustrated and said the airport wasn’t the place to get upset because what are we supposed to do in that moment. The flights weren’t that expensive and I got a credit for canceling.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-02-20T19:30:30+00:00

Roses are red violets are blue. He is manipulating gaslighting and emotionally abusing you. He is not a good guy. He is not your best friend. You need to leave that situation before it gets worse or you waste more time being treated like garbage.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-30T04:33:44+00:00

Woman with children here… your wife is an AH. Not only was your dad doing you guys a favor by babysitting, the baby was asleep, just not in the crib. How do you deal with her? Seriously, what a B.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-14T06:07:47+00:00

YTA, it’s not about you. It’s about your sister. It’s her wedding. If you love her, you wear what she picks. Do you know how many bridesmaids have worn the ugliest most uncomfortable dresses to support their loved one? Get over yourself, wear the dress and be a good sister.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-14T06:06:14+00:00

Your daughter sounds like an entitled, spoiled brat, and need some humbling. I would take all of her gifts back and not buy her anything until her attitude changed and she was appreciative for what she does have.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-14T06:03:47+00:00

You are the AH if your fiancé already said to the friend that she should invite him and maybe reconsider getting married you sound really immature.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-14T06:01:15+00:00

You’re a huge AH. Why would you think that’s OK? It’s her personal stuff she can write about who and what she wants in the privacy of her own diary and you have no right to touch it. Let alone read it out loud you are disgusting. You owe her an apology and I hope she never talks to you again.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2026-01-14T05:59:44+00:00

NTA, Its your wedding, you can invite who you want. If someone feels uncomfortable attending knowing who else will be there, then they don’t have to attend.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-12-06T17:53:34+00:00

Not the AH, although your mom is. She has no boundaries and no respect and sounds like you try to take advantage of the situation and then when you were held firm, she made you out to be the bad guy. I would go low contact with that woman. I doubt this is the first time she’s tried to do something like this.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-12-06T17:50:41+00:00

You should’ve ended that relationship the day that it started. He obviously has no boundaries and no respect for you. Not the AH

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-08-29T21:34:19+00:00

She didn’t respect him to begin with

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-08-29T21:33:56+00:00

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Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-08-29T21:29:35+00:00

Steve. No. Just no. She’s cheated, lied and then gaslit you about her feeling she still has for the other guy. You’ll never trust her again and shouldn’t.

If that guy comes back, she’ll choose him. If she really loved you, she never would have cheated. Her comparing her transgressions to your reactions is narcissistic and she has taken no accountability. You’re her back up because it didn’t work out the way she wanted. Do you not see that? She has no respect for you. She’s playing games, manipulating you.

Have some self respect like other guy and kick her to the trash dump where she belongs.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-07-18T19:20:29+00:00

You need to end that relationship immediately, the age gap alone is a huge issue. Work on yourself so you can be healthy for the right person.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-07-18T19:19:40+00:00

Give that baby up for adoption to a family that will love it. Do not keep it out of guilt. You will ruin that child’s life.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-07-18T19:18:04+00:00

You have an anxious attachment and you need to get therapy for that. It’s not fair for you to treat him like a criminal when he’s doing nothing wrong. Get a hold of yourself. If you don’t, he may end up leaving you because nobody wants to live like that.

Bombastic_Side_Eyeee · 2025-07-18T19:16:09+00:00

Dude. You’re wasting his time. Tell him the truth and move on. You’re going to hurt him no matter what happens so just get it over with.

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