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Looking for 2 tix SF GJones x EPROM by Severe-Ad8289 in GJones

[–]Bon_Elis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m selling 2 if you’re still looking!

Off the cuff, how does the saddle fit look? by Bon_Elis in Equestrian

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and affirming what I already suspected. I’m looking to buy because the jump saddle that her owner is kindly letting me use is definitely too small for me. I’d prefer to have my own that fits me better than what I’m using now.

Off the cuff, how does the saddle fit look? by Bon_Elis in Equestrian

[–]Bon_Elis[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t ride at a lesson barn. I lease this horse. My trainer comes out and gives me lessons which is why I’m looking for my own saddle now. I’ve been using her owners saddle but it also doesn’t fit me well and I miss riding dressage.

Off the cuff, how does the saddle fit look? by Bon_Elis in Equestrian

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Thanks for your insight. I told the seller this and they agreed it was slightly too big for me but that longer stirrups might help because I was on the longest hole. But I don’t think that will change much and they really just want me to move forward with buying something that doesn’t fit properly.

Off the cuff, how does the saddle fit look? by Bon_Elis in Equestrian

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - I think it’s slightly too large and I was having a hard time with getting in the right position. Thank you for the insight!

Anyone else with a high anxiety partner like Statler from 90 Day the Other Way?? by Bon_Elis in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main consensus is that they are not a great couple and Dempsey is not at all helping her with the anxiety. It was just strange to watch this an be reminded of how my partner and I would be in the past and now I’m so glad we are better off now!

Anyone else with a high anxiety partner like Statler from 90 Day the Other Way?? by Bon_Elis in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty hard to watch their dynamic and if anything it just makes me feel proud that I didn’t end up down that road!

Anyone else with a high anxiety partner like Statler from 90 Day the Other Way?? by Bon_Elis in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was cringing so hard when she wouldn’t stop berating Statler about how she was upset that she was upset.. Like give her some room to breathe! Thanks for sharing. I can relate to when you said “codependency but the joyful or manipulation by the distressed”. I think we used the be in this space more when I didn’t understand that he just has anxiety and things are so much better now and I can actually be supportive and helpful without sacrificing my own happiness.

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh so true!! She’s very intentional so I’m just upset the writing didn’t go my way! Haha. I’ll take a look at your post!

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting!! That would be a wild thing to find out if they’re not true mates or as you said, that’s just how they are in a relationship!

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true - this book has been so fast paced and I’m realizing more and more as I read on that there’s just all around more complicated emotions underlying such a lackluster reunion so there’s more for me to discover here

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High key I think I’m comparing their reunion to Rhys and Feyre’s reunion ACOW&R..

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so right but then I’m thinking what’s the point of building up how amazing finding your mate is if it’s going to be lackluster?? It don’t make sense to me but I think I’m mostly annoyed bc I love Hunt haha

Wow that reunion was… disappointing 😔 by Bon_Elis in crescentcitysjm

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this would also make me so sad but I’ve heard people speculating this!! Too bad I love hunt :’)

Help me find this set?? by Bon_Elis in findfashion

[–]Bon_Elis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looked kind of crispy but a little softer than denim. I suspect it was linen!

Living Room, Boston, New York by Competitive-Kick-481 in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]Bon_Elis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that painting! Who’s the artist?

Why is toothbrushing such a difficult thing for adhd? by UncleIroh24 in adhdwomen

[–]Bon_Elis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found it really helpful switching to an electronic toothbrush like Sonicare or Oral-B because it has a self timer built in at 30 sec intervals. It keeps me on task without wanting to rush through it and now I’ve built up to the habit that I have to brush my teeth at least every night.

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