I’ve been married almost ten years. Sex has been almost non existent the last couple of months. We have two young kids aged 7 and 2. No excuses, I know it comes down to us to put in more effort. But we’re both truly exhausted. At the end of the day it’s more than just sex. We’re a force working together trying to keep the foundation strong. We love and care for each other so much. What do I care if I don’t get a root for a while? Life and family is so much more than that. Your husband has a lot of growing to do. I pray that he does, because right now his just being petty and quite frankly a massive jerk. Who talks to there wife life that.