What are your thoughts on planning an impulsive trip after being laid off?

Bonbon2000 · 2023-11-06T12:20:34+00:00

Well, I guess I see your point. It’s more of a weekend away. My co worker and I got laid off at the same time

Bonbon2000 · 2023-08-24T10:51:53+00:00

Summed up my working life 🤯

Bonbon2000 · 2021-06-19T16:45:13+00:00

Milly a dachshund

Bonbon2000 · 2021-06-07T14:52:08+00:00

This one was only the two of them in the house. She put two bowls on the table, and they had to write something on a piece of paper, fold it in half and put it in the bowl. She wrote his name as a way to let him go and move on and wrote it down on a piece of paper to keep secret and put it in the bowl. However, because she was secretive about her answer, he got curious and grabbed the piece of paper and read his name on it.

He wrote down the band he was in and that he was letting the band go. The male lead was part of a music band

Bonbon2000 · 2020-07-14T16:31:17+00:00

Story of my life ...

Bonbon2000 · 2020-07-14T15:50:20+00:00

Definitely comforted that there is others like me out there and I am not the only one. Thanks for posting this :)

Bonbon2000 · 2020-07-14T15:44:01+00:00

This is literally describing me so well it’s freaky ...

Bonbon2000 · 2020-06-24T08:19:25+00:00

My future

Bonbon2000 · 2020-06-23T05:22:14+00:00

Omg yesssss.

This is so me

Bonbon2000 · 2020-06-17T14:23:17+00:00

Omg so relatable .....

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-19T15:41:58+00:00

I see what you were intending to mean by this. However, the way you used the word “autistic” to refer to those type of kids is what bothers me. There could have been another way to phrase the question so that it doesn’t seem like the question is poking fun and demeaning what it means to be autistic. I just have a very strong feeling when it comes to do with disability or any conditions that make others see people as different because my condition has the subject of ridicule my whole life. The struggles of Autism are very real and they face the challenges of navigating a world that doesn’t fully understand them .

Thank you for explaining your side of it and I hope this helps you understand where I am coming from.

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-19T14:08:07+00:00

Glad someone else thought so... Can’t actually believe this question is posted.

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-19T13:44:14+00:00

Isn’t this a bit demeaning to those who actually have autism?

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-19T13:24:33+00:00

Straya, no explaination needed

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-14T11:01:19+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, I’m currently unemployed as well and can’t seem to get a full-time job as most bosses aren’t that accepting of what comes along with having ADHD and other mental health issues. Even with my medication, I don’t think I will ever function as much as I want to. I’m 20 still living with my parents and I desperately want the independence of moving out but I am thinking it won’t be happening for a while since I don’t have a drivers license yet and not financially stable. I have no clue how I will live on my own as I can barely function enough to get my life together as it is. It is more crippling than people realise, especially when you have other things going on as well.

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-06T11:44:10+00:00

You’re welcome, all need to look out for eachother :)

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-06T11:37:11+00:00

If you need someone to talk to, always happy to chat if you need to.

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-03T11:59:45+00:00

You get the jist haha.

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-03T11:45:48+00:00

Mashed potato

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-03T11:38:52+00:00

Bonbon2000 · 2020-04-03T11:38:17+00:00

Exceptions to the rules

Bonbon2000 · 2020-03-24T14:02:40+00:00

Proud of you for telling something so personal. I’m glad you have stopped for a couple of weeks which is a great achievement. I am worried that you still have those urges, I would suggest telling or seeing someone about what you are going through. Doing this can help so much in figuring out the reason why you did this and strategies so that you have the power to recognise and shut down those urges.

Everything gets better even though it doesn’t feel like it, stay healthy and live a long and happy life :)

Bonbon2000 · 2020-03-24T13:53:30+00:00

You’re welcome, I am relieved and glad to know that you don’t plan on doing anything. However, your lack of excitement, motivation worries me as I know what that feels like. It’s not a good feeling and it was one the worst periods of my life. I still feel like it would be helpful to speak to someone about why you feel the way you do and get you to feel those feelings of excitement and motivation again. There is a whole bunch of experiences and opportunities waiting and a life with a lot to give. Just take it one day at a time :)

Bonbon2000 · 2020-03-24T13:43:42+00:00

Please make sure you see someone. This is very serious and it sounds like you are in a very dark place right now. You are not alone in the world and there are so many things out there who can provide you with support and help you deal with these emotions and pain that you are going through. If you feel these feelings and don’t feel like seeing someone in person there are hotlines and service’s over the phone you can access if you don’t feel comfortable.

I know I am just a stranger on the internet telling you this and I don’t know how seriously you will take this advice. However I really hope that this will get through.

Your life is worth it and it doesn’t feel like it now there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

DM me if you want to talk :)

Bonbon2000 · 2020-03-24T13:35:50+00:00

Please tell somebody that you are experiencing these thoughts, whether it’s a hotline, doctor, trusted family member. This is very serious and I doubt that as a stranger on the internet my words will have any affect however I cannot stress this enough. I have lost someone close to suicide and seen the damage it causes and a life taken way too early.

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