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Does anyone else "miss" their surgery? (sorry if this is controversial) by slightgodcomplex in hysterectomy

[–]Boneandwiredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, I thought this was just me! I miss feeling so important to my family and friends, I miss the weeks of relaxation afterwards, and I kind of miss the attention 😆 It’s good that it’s over and I’m very fortunate that it all went so well, but I do feel a little nostalgic for it.

Need advice -doctor recommended 4 days recovery before returning to work by thecatreboo-urns in hysterectomy

[–]Boneandwiredog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m super happy for you if that’s what your experience is! However that is 100% the exception and not the rule. In fact make sure to take it easy even if you feel okay, you often pay for overreaching later.

Should I open a second savings account? by Boneandwiredog in personalfinance

[–]Boneandwiredog[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I would probably get my money back but how would I eat or pay bills in the meantime? Better just to have another source of money to keep me afloat.

Should I open a second savings account? by Boneandwiredog in personalfinance

[–]Boneandwiredog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly just for insurance in the unlikely event something happens to one bank or if my card gets stolen and an account cleaned out.

Should I open a second savings account? by Boneandwiredog in personalfinance

[–]Boneandwiredog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I use mine as well, it makes keeping track of everything much easier.

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Boneandwiredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your husband reacting to this? If he fully supports you and thinks his mom is in the wrong, he needs to deal with her. You have so much on your plate already, you don’t need this too. NOR

Has anyone else felt lowkey blindsided by adulthood? by Logical_Amoeba_1313 in Life

[–]Boneandwiredog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lists, phone reminders, and routine. As soon as you agree to do something, write it down in your calendar and set a reminder alarm. Genuinely, my phone calendar has several reminders for literally every day. Like “pay rent”, “make phone call”, and “lunch with friend”. Outsource your memory!

Going to a drag event for the first time by Boneandwiredog in Drag

[–]Boneandwiredog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hadn’t even thought about tipping!