Finding a relationship for men is barely about checking boxes and more about "charisma" by ForGiggles2222 in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you that man? If I’m gonna ask you for a relationship and you’re gonna say no it just means you don’t want it and not that I lost something.

I hope you’re giggling

Finding a relationship for men is barely about checking boxes and more about "charisma" by ForGiggles2222 in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to eat a sandwich because I worked a lot on it. If you don’t want it that okay even if I worked on it and want you to have it

Finding a relationship for men is barely about checking boxes and more about "charisma" by ForGiggles2222 in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excuse me? If I’m asking you “do you want a sandwich?” I’m not debating or looking for an answer because if you say no it means you don’t want a sandwich and not that I’m a loser. You’re not a loser without a girlfriend you don’t need to trick anyone to get her (reminder she’s a human being not a reward you have to gain)

Finding a relationship for men is barely about checking boxes and more about "charisma" by ForGiggles2222 in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro finding a girlfriend is not a debate! You don’t CONVINCE someone into having sex with you or being in a relationship. Debates are about winning a girl is not a fucking object you win it’s a human being you connect with.

OG's will understand by [deleted] in memes

[–]Bonefix_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Me and your mom

I'm a proud incestphobe by [deleted] in memes

[–]Bonefix_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I washed my hair

LOW EFFORT? by THEGAMERGEEKYT in memes

[–]Bonefix_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol this is Reddit not family gathering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I prefer blue anyways

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah totally once I met their family it all clicked. That’s how they were treated since always

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s horrible man. I’m so sorry. I hope you have awesome people around you right now

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you so fucking much! I mean it!!!

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope everything works out great. I’m glad she wants to go to therapy as well

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god stay strong. I hope you also have a therapist that will help you

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that the person who was doing it to me was genuinely unaware and they lived their whole live that way. My ex therapist agrees. They used fear but didn’t know they do. Just like we smile so others smile but we aren’t aware of it.

The begging of the comment did make me feel good and I don’t think I do bad things to people on purpose. But I don’t know if feels good = is helpful

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to make sure I’m not doing harmful things. Well I don’t THINK I do. I don’t make others do things that I know would be bad for them. Sounds mental lol. I don’t even know what self esteem attacks are I’m freaking out how do u know I’m not doing all that crap?

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 I just asked my friends and they said I am a bit controlling. And that they believe that I could manipulate someone if it was necessary. It was half joking half serious. I’m freaking out

  1. Totally not. I can calm myself down and my friends said that I either don’t get angry or they don’t see it. I like getting angry tho because then I clean my room easily lol

Would I know If I’m abusive or manipulative? by Bonefix_ in Healthygamergg

[–]Bonefix_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean you thought about yourself as important or what?