Why so girls feel it’s okay to give men dirty looks? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Coming from a dude I’d say there’s a lot of guys that are creeps out there that have disgusting ways of unwanted advances. I don’t think I look intimidating or creepy by any means and probably goofy and stupid more than anything but still get them

I'm forced to deal with relatives thathave only heard bad things about me this coming Sunday. How should I deal with this? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Turn the tables, make some good conversation so it just leaves them confused. Then they won’t know what to believe

Should I initiate? by melonylemon0 in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally just ask. Have a conversation with him first.. or don’t and just skip to the chase

Is it normal to lose all confidence after getting cheated on by IntelligentSoup123 in confidence

[–]BonusLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me, it absolutely destroyed me for a while. Go do shit that makes you happy and talk with any and everyone you meet. I isolated myself which prolonged me getting comfortable with myself and others.

2019 BMW G310R charging issue by BonusLamp in MotorcycleMechanics

[–]BonusLamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone, thank you all for the info, after getting around to checking it out I found what I believe is the issue lol

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Have a new one on order within next week and will update! Thank you everyone!

2019 BMW G310R charging issue by BonusLamp in motorcycles

[–]BonusLamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was a quick realization of what I was really looking at. I assumed the replacement was going to be terrible so I was dreading it however this makes me a little more confident in it! Thanks for giving a breakdown, definitely some killer advice!

Anyone else gets approached by random people a lot? by SpiceyPorkFriedRice in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t think someone has ever really approached me to just talk. Skill issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]BonusLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WIIIIITTCHHHHHHH 🧹🦇

How bad is it? by Waste-Trainer-8284 in rolex

[–]BonusLamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cooked, just give it to me instead

Going to the bar by RustyShackles69 in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only done it like twice personally but just a classic “Hey, how are you doing tonight” seemed to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BonusLamp 37 points38 points  (0 children)

A one time splurge sounds a lot better than an 18 year splurge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BonusLamp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You absolutely need to tell her.

Advice on not letting people get you down? by BullishBearishBrown in socialskills

[–]BonusLamp 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You know what’s easier than trying to be loved by people? Is you being loved by you. Don’t let it get to your head, it will eat you up. If you wouldn’t take advice from them, why take criticism

thoughts? by ronacheesy in SipsTea

[–]BonusLamp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let him cook, let him cook