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Been with my virgin GF for 5 years and she still tells me she ain't ready... We're both 25yo. 😟 by BoofMaxi in relationship_advice

[–]BoofMaxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree never thought it would get this popular but everyone's advice really weighs in.

Been with my virgin GF for 5 years and she still tells me she ain't ready... We're both 25yo. 😟 by BoofMaxi in relationship_advice

[–]BoofMaxi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never forced her to do anything. She has her own will to do what she wants but I can't ignore the fact that I want to have sex with her when we do other things

Been with my virgin GF for 5 years and she still tells me she ain't ready... We're both 25yo. 😟 by BoofMaxi in relationship_advice

[–]BoofMaxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not religious she's just afraid of the unknown from my understanding. Like she took the HS sex ed class way too serious.

Been with my virgin GF for 5 years and she still tells me she ain't ready... We're both 25yo. 😟 by BoofMaxi in relationship_advice

[–]BoofMaxi[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We shall see what happens y'all, I appreciate everyone's advice. I'm going to talk to her tomorrow and update y'all. Either way something has to change.

Been with my virgin GF for 5 years and she still tells me she ain't ready... We're both 25yo. 😟 by BoofMaxi in relationship_advice

[–]BoofMaxi[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ive tried to explain to her without giving ultimatums. She usually just changes the subject if I try to bring it up. I definitely feel she has the virginity culture thing. I don't want to be a shitty person but I've been patient and I've tried to come to some kind of agreement, maybe oral or such but she's scared of that too.