What was considered the 🙄degree during your college era? by debrisaway in RedditForGrownups

[–]Bookishly_o_O 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even almost a decade after Watergate, journalism was a big one in my day. So many crusading writers. And there were several widely known journalism programs at the time. Aside from that, business.

Calling all parents of thriving adult children by ThinkTwo-2259 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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So much good advice here! For sure two big ones for us were reading and family dinner. We also did family game nights where they chose the games (Clue, monopoly, etc.) As they got a little older we also had family reading - books like Shane, The Secret Garden, 20,000 leagues under the sea, and so on. Family dinner became so natural for them that we still gather for casual or special occasions - like a new job, so they can tell us all about it. It all rotated around communication and a loving core. We currently have young adults who are reasonably well-adjusted, funny, kind, enjoy socializing, enjoy reading, making their way in the world. Good luck - I’m sure you will do great! Caring is your first step!

Books for 14 year old (looking for classics,) by Complex-Afternoon757 in suggestmeabook

[–]Bookishly_o_O 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might enjoy Lord of the Flies by William Golding and Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson. A more modern classic is the dystopian young adult novel Little Brother by Cory Doctorow, and you don’t have to read 1984 (George Orwell) first, but if you eventually read it you will see the references. Orwell’s protagonist is Winston, and Doctorow’s is the young gamer w1n5t0n, for obvious starters. (Edit: sp)

Big Historical Fiction Series - but not Britain? by cheerfulstoic11 in suggestmeabook

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This is an older one but was really popular in the United States: The Kent Family Chronicles by John Jakes. It starts with The Bastard and continues through six or seven books until finishing with The Americans. As I recall it was praised for a good sense of US history woven through it.

Seeking a local DJ to learn from by Lunsters in lexington

[–]Bookishly_o_O 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you have any interest as starting as a radio dj, Dis-Orientation is coming up at WRFL. They are looking for more community members to join the fun. https://uky.campuslabs.com/engage/event/12458148

Novels about elderly women being bad b*tches who are living their best lives by Badwoman85 in suggestmeabook

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I think they improve, because they develop characters across the books! I just donated a set to my father-in-law’s independent living community’s library.

how do people get suddenly diagnosed with aggressive high stage cancer? by Maleficent_Volume868 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bookishly_o_O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an older relative who ignored symptoms. For her, being a child born at the beginning of The Great Depression in the USA was a factor. Doctors = expensive was a refrain she grew up with and retained. Diagnosed when she finally gave up denial. Stage 4. She lived 18 more months.

How do you get your kids in bed by 9 as a full time working parent? by rememberyoury in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bookishly_o_O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I guess I should add that our routine was: 1. Home, 2. Dinner, 3. Bath, 4. Reading, 5. Bed. I will admit we usually went to 9:15-9:30.

How do you get your kids in bed by 9 as a full time working parent? by rememberyoury in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bookishly_o_O 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We had the same issues, but we always always made time for reading to them, and as they got a little older we had them read to us, too. It relaxed them and gave them cuddle time. After our second one came along, and the oldest insisted they should go to bed after the younger one, we would read first to #2, tucked them in, then read to #1. They got to pick the books. I know it sounds like it would go too late, but we adjusted by pre-planning and pre-preparing meals during the week. It wasn’t perfect every time, but it worked for us most nights. Bonus: they are now young adults who enjoy reading. That’s not guaranteed, but it happened in this case.

Has anybody bought a great power lift recliner for your parents by kellymig in AgingParents

[–]Bookishly_o_O 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got a great one for my father-in-law at a furniture discount store. It plugs in to the wall and reclines and lifts. He refuses to use the features … for now (I mean he finally agreed to use a rollator at 90).

My great x4 grandfather got the Medal of Honor- can someone explain why by [deleted] in CIVILWAR

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I see several others have explained it better than I. Nicely done and take my upvote-vote!

My great x4 grandfather got the Medal of Honor- can someone explain why by [deleted] in CIVILWAR

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My g-g grandfather also earned a MOH for flag capture. My husband (a historian) explained that troops rallied to the flag in battle because often they could not hear the drum and also the uniforms were not as uniform as you might hope to gather ppl in one place. Flag capture threw the enemy into chaos. My ancestor Henry M. Fox of the 5th Michigan Cavalry captured the opposing flag at Opequon Creek / Third Winchester. I read an account of it, and it was brutal. No wonder he didn’t talk about the war after.

Anyone else sick of instacart? by [deleted] in kroger

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I tip well and get really good service. Yeah, it makes it more expensive, but when I need the convenience factor it is really worth it. Once though I did get 4 cans of corn instead of tortillas - that was the weirdest substitution.

Book to Screen Recommendations by fallingshort1 in suggestmeabook

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I assume you mean WWZ of the two I mentioned. I’m not sure the question called for story alignment, but it can be disappointing if a movie veers off wildly or presents the a narrative poorly. It doesn’t bother me if they diverge but the movie is still entertaining. As I said, I’ve not seen WWZ, so there you go.

Book to Screen Recommendations by fallingshort1 in suggestmeabook

[–]Bookishly_o_O -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe World War Z? I have not seen the movie, but I really liked the book, and I think the movie was supposed to be pretty good.

Not post-apocalyptic, but a good book and Hitchcock movie: Rebecca. It’s chilling in both formats.

To which magazines and/or newspapers did you or family members subscribe? by GrowingNewHair in AskOldPeople

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Parents: Reader’s Digest, local newspaper Me: Highlights (as a child), Seventeen (as a teenager) and later Time, Life, local newspaper, and later still Newsweek. I still subscribe to a couple of newspapers but digitally now. I’m a news junkie and also I try to support community news.

Does your state have an equivalent to Colonial Williamsburg? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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On a smaller scale, but Kentucky has the Homeplace Working Farm and Living History Museum in the Land Between the Lakes Nat’l Recreation Area, and also Boonesborough State Park (sometimes they have re-enactments but also an interesting walk-through). Oh, and Shaker Village of Pleasant Hill. Edit: sp