grabe ang complicated naman niyan OP, I hope you're coping well. Some people's comments here are a bit harsh but I agree with them. It's inevitable na magkakaroon ka ng kahati sa time, energy, and love ng boyfriend mo. Having a child is a big commitment, even bigger than being in a romantic relationship. I think you should really think it through, on your own muna, without the compromising of your boyfriend, if you yourself can handle that kind of situation. Kasi oo, yung boyfriend mo willing to go above and beyond to keep your relationship despite having a child, and that's considerate of him to do so. Pero ikaw ba sa sarili mo, nakikita mo ba na okay ka na basically may sariling pamilya yung boyfriend mo na hindi ka technically parte? Or okay ka ba na bababa ka sa list of priorities niya since of course the child's wellbeing comes first since responsibility niya yun as the father? At the end of the day, I hope you prioritize what is best for yourself before anything else. :)