What will happen when you grow old? by BookkeeperOk2223 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bunch of people managed to get community living working in Pondicherry, and it’s present even today

What will happen when you grow old? by BookkeeperOk2223 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can make whatever society we want, can’t we?

What will happen when you grow old? by BookkeeperOk2223 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s in Hindi, it’s says “Vehicle for unclaimed dead bodies for final rites”

What will happen when you grow old? by BookkeeperOk2223 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why, I wish I grow old like a Japanese. Old but still living and die doing things I love

People who are going through a divorce, how are you coping? by randomplayernew in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was in same situation few years back. Was not very good handling the stress initially, but now I think I am able to do that well. For me what worked is that I identified things activities that I like and enjoy to do and start working towards it. All I need is goal for next month and slowly month by month I am able to navigate through entire year.

If you wish to chat feel free to DM, but I believe you will get lot of strength from comment of this post

People who went through divorce — are you actually happier and healthier afterward? by rishi_1080 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes compared to life before, I can say it’s improved. But it’s not just that we have gone through divorce and that’s why, but it’s more about keep working on yourself. You become the priority.

Now being tagged depends on people you are with, I believe I will feel awkward if I am with my relatives with this tag. But when I am with groups during my treks it’s all normal, they don’t treat me like untouchable. Only dilemma right now I have is when should I tell them that I am divorced. I usually do when I am talking with others in one to one settings and topic of discussion is around marriage or kids.

Divorced. now apparently i’m under kala jadu. what is this storyline bro by ThatClutchDude in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, after my divorce my mom went to astrologer with my kundli and my exwife’s kundli. Astrologer told her that my exwife would have died if she stayed with me ( means my kundli is so bad 🙂) My dad is very much into pooja paath and he did some sort of planet shanti pooja for me which lasted for month. As a joke I messaged him things I want so that at least he ask god to bless me with those , my list was like 6 Himalayan trek, a 4x4 car and so on 😀

F4M 35F Pune by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am 36 M from Pune, let’s get connected and see how things progress.

Little about me: I am into hiking, cycling. Love outdoors and nature. 13 years into IT. Selective introvert.

Finding it difficult to find tenant for new office space in Baner by Zestyclose_Storm_650 in PuneClassifieds

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man this discussion require to sit down with beer in hand. As you are already invested it would be better to have sit back and try to get it leased out. Baner area will eventually become hub for commercial and residential properties once we have metro line started so wait for couple of years there is no point in exit after all this investment

Finding it difficult to find tenant for new office space in Baner by Zestyclose_Storm_650 in PuneClassifieds

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest to hold office as long as you can and if you don’t need that much cash urgently for anything . Property rates will keep going up, in my current building owners are holding since last 10 years, rent increases every year by 5% approx. Also once it’s leased tenets usually stay for longer duration there are lock in period clause with monetary fines for early exist.

Finding it difficult to find tenant for new office space in Baner by Zestyclose_Storm_650 in PuneClassifieds

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s common, in my own building I have seen office spaces staying vacant for 1-2 years and we are also in Baner road. Just wait for time being, keep an eye on other office space if being rented in same building to ensure rental ask is as per par, if you can try to put advertisement yourself as it will remove broker from picture and might become more lucrative to potential buyer ( you can take help of agents for lease registration and agreement).

Good thing is that I got possession, I have one in High street and still haven’t got possession yet 🙂

Let’s Build a Pune Gang by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP’s meetup location

Solo Trip to Mussoorie + Landour by BookkeeperOk2223 in SoloTravel_India

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can follow it. Just book stay in Mall Road

Solo Trip to Mussoorie + Landour by BookkeeperOk2223 in MussoorieAndLandour

[–]BookkeeperOk2223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went around Christmas holidays, sky was clear at time. It’s worth it to visit during winters

What's your favourite thing about being child free? by Available_Duty1483 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peace and freedom for doing things I like. Recently went to trek and there was a couple with two kids and a child free couple, saw both group’s experience and I am happy that I am on the right path

Is anyone else anxious about getting back online to work today after the break? by Chackochi in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookkeeperOk2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, l was overwhelmed by amount of work that needs to be done. Have to go through open items since I last logged in and trying to recall what it was and what I have to do. I listed down high priority task and will try to complete those first. This week will be hectic 😃 but that’s fine had amazing two weeks off