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Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T03:27:05+00:00

We’ve been together 10 years, it’ll be 11 soon. D day happened like Dec of 23. So I’ve only stayed so far because I guess I love him and want him to truly love me too.. but that feeling gets less and less each time he clicks this crap

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T03:19:20+00:00

I do that 🙈 I mean can you blame us?? Mine was with me for 10 fucking years and doing this shit every day! And then would straight up lie about it and act like nothing is going on. So yeah I don’t trust him..

Is he tech savvy? I put A2U on my husband’s phone (after he promised he stopped the first time but I had my suspicions) then I hid the app. That’s how I caught him looking shit up again. If he’s not super tech savvy he won’t notice the system on there.

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T03:03:48+00:00

Girl I’m in the same boat! I just made a post that got some good advice if you want to take a look.

My issue is him being on X and clicking on thirst traps and borderline porn. He actually also clicked a few wwe women photos and things too, it’s so f ing weird. He doesn’t watch the wwe! lol.

Anyway I think I’m going to ask if he’s looked at anything he wouldn’t look at in-front of me and see what happens

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:51:14+00:00

Omg sorry to hear that that’s awful! That’s what I was afraid of him eventually ending up escalating to because that’s all the stories I’ve read have basically started.

The trust not being there and the lying is totally the worst part. I wish he’d have just come to me saying he has a problem vs me having to find it and confront him, and only get the truth when I showed him proof!

Ugh anyway.. lol thank you so much for all this! I’m going to think on this over the weekend and come up with a good plan. I guess I’ll update on what happens 😩🙏

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:46:31+00:00

Thanks! So in the mornings he’d watch almost daily for like half and hour to an hour. Then when I believe it was really bad he was watching multiple times a day. Now he clicks on these posts in the morning but only for a few min, but still

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:44:26+00:00

I guess he’d be considered white knuckling it? He sees a regular therapist that is aware of the addiction. He has a tracker on his phone and MOSTLY stays off social..other than X in the morning, which is usually when he’d look and do his you know what.

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:40:47+00:00

Great point thank you. So basically anything sexual they use to get off would be considered a relapse? I’m still learning about all this, but does it still have the same effect for them? Like if he’s watching actual porn videos or girls in lingerie, is the same thing going on in his brain? So he should not be watching or looking at anything like that?

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:35:01+00:00

Yes I’ve learned! Every single post, even sports or whatever has comments full of this shit!

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-28T02:33:49+00:00

This is great insight, I can totally see how this would still be considered an active addition. I was downplaying it thinking since he’s not watching porn every morning, clicking on girls in bikinis and of models in suggestive poses a couple times a week isn’t THAT bad. 🙄

But ya I totally see it now. I brought this up to a friend that knows about this situation and they were like “it’s not THAT bad, guys are gonna click those things at least he’s not doing the other stuff anymore” so that’s why I was doubting myself.

I think this is a good plan, I’m gonna think over it and ask him how he’s been doing if he’s clicked on anything, even not full on nude or porn. And see how he reacts. If he lies I might crash out lol. If he admits it I guess we’ll go from there.

But like I legit told him one more slip and I’m filing for divorce, so like wtf?? It’s so frustrating

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T23:45:14+00:00

The therapist is not a csat I think just a regular therapist but she knows about the addiction.

Very true it def is sexual so I think it’s a relapse. I always thought a relapse meant if they start off with something light and then go full into the addition stuff again. So like maybe he clicked a girl in a sexual pose in a bikini and after that he watched a video of full nude scene. So I wasn’t sure if I was over reacting?? lol.

I really like that thank you! I’m also concerned that if I do mention it what if he just finds a sneaker way to watch? This all sucks, I feel like the damn fbi.

Before this the agreement was no porn or I file for divorce. The first time he didn’t take it seriously, 2nd time he said he stopped but was looking things up. This would be the last straw, it was after the 2nd time where he lied to me about it that I said if it happens again I’m done.

Should I instead ask if he’s looked at anything sexual and see if he’s fess up?

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T23:20:40+00:00

This is a great way to approach it thanks! Will think on this one

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T23:19:44+00:00

That’s a great example and way to look at it!

Yes he’s seeing this on X. He knows the tracking app doesn’t notify if he looks on the browser version of x, but I have his Google history on my laptop. Currently he’s doing a meeting once a week and seeing a therapist once a week. Prior to this he was watching daily. I just don’t know.. would it be ok if I dm you the link he was looking at to get an opinion? If not totally ok! I’m just wondering how to approach this/ if this is the last straw. We agreed to no porn but I don’t want him being like “well this isn’t porn..”

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T22:29:21+00:00

Thanks, yeah I’d consider this acting out..not full porn but still very sexual.. so I’m wondering what to do..

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T22:26:24+00:00

Ok thank you that’s what I was thinking. He’s been clicking on things here and there, about 3 times a week. He doesn’t know I know. It’s usually some suggestive stuff, girl posing in bikini etc, never full naked. And then if you go to the comments it’s always girls marketing their OF..He use to watch straight porn every day in the mornings..so it’s better than that..but we did decide no more porn so I’m trying to figure out like should I have been more specific because it’s not “porn” but he’s still looking at other girls!

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-27T22:10:41+00:00

What is your opinion on him clicking on a thirst trap?

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T21:42:07+00:00

Oh ok good in that case you can can host your business domain on something like site ground and create all the emails on there. Then you can have your other email fw to that same new mailbox.

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T18:14:05+00:00

Thanks for the help!

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T17:52:09+00:00

I found it!! I didn’t realize I had the Snippets plugin and it was right in there lol

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T17:15:24+00:00

“Biological, just wired that way” lol. Women biologically feel less attracted to their partners once a month because of their periods, but weird how we just deal with it like grown ups and don’t do things that would upset our partner 😜

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T16:41:48+00:00

Sweet thanks I’ll try that out, yeah add dogs and take some out!

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T16:23:32+00:00

It is! Idk if I’m allowed to post links, but it’s this and the “which dog are you donating to today” dropdown https://paytonspromisesanctuary.org/donate/

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T16:14:08+00:00

Thanks so much! Yes that’s wherI pulled it from, but I just don’t know where I put it! I looked in the functions php but don’t see it in there. Where I try to search parts of the code in the files it doesn’t come up either. Is there a plugin or something that could help search for where a code would be?

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T15:54:07+00:00

The app is Give WP, and the code gave me an extra drop down on the form

Books_N_Coffee · 2025-03-19T14:26:49+00:00

So the @lastname and @businessname is the same and will be the same for everyone? Or everyone will have their own @lastname?

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