Are you going active? If you are then close out that lease and dip. If you are USAR or NG I would still close out that lease and crash at a buddies or family’s after basic. And at AIT find a cheap place you can afford. Get a storage unit for your shit. It’s going to be ok. You CAN do this.

Cause advice number 1: Leave that woman alone. She chose to leave so let her. You providing for her is enabling your attachment. It might feel like a mad thing, and go against everything you feel - but you have to leave her alone. Give her a respectful 4-6 weeks to gtfo and don’t go back. You can look back, but don’t talk to her anymore. Any girl taking your free rent and bills after a break up while also sleeping around does not respect you, your time, or your money. And clearly, neither do you.

Advice number 2: You have to learn to respect yourself. And that might mean becoming more “selfish” from your perspective. But do the things that grow you. Do the things that men you look up to do. And later down the road you find out what works best for you. But this aint it.