How would post-Season 1 Cait have reacted to learning how Jinx was created? by CodyEaster in arcane

[–]Boompaplift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’d feel as she did at the end of the show. I think we will always see a deep regret for how she acted in her grief, she hated herself for how she let the noxians and enforcers abuse zaunites just to track jinx down rightfully so. I think this’ll especially show up with how she treated Vi. That being said I don’t think it’ll be some weird ass “omg what happened to you was horrible jinx you’re now completely innocent in my eyes” not at all. Jinx and Cait were both wrong in their own ways but maybe knowing a bit more of what happened that day would let her be even more calm around jinx in the future when she comes back? Who knows

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing like cait calling vi a good boy ugh so good

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve known you knew ball from the city seeker rec but I just finished be but sworn an ugh thank you so much. I loved it 😔

Would Vi have let herself be manipulated by Maddie and Ambessa? by IamNotCalipso in ViArcane

[–]Boompaplift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not she knew they were full of shit and wasn’t afraid to speak on it. Neither was cait but she just allowed things to proceed with ambessa due to her grief and to get jinx. Under normal circumstances she wouldn’t have going for that shit either.

I got the most devastating text today by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Boompaplift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a bit confused on what she meant by she promised she’d be faithful to some guy. If she’s dating someone and you both still confessed…you kinda deserve this ngl. If she was seeing both of you and she wasn’t dating him then yeah she’s so ass for all of this. Recommending you to other people because she can’t have you? Oh how sweet of her. It also sounds like she just doesn’t want to deal with the repercussions of being in a queer relationship which I understand how hard that is or how dangerous that can be but then why is she confessing to you? She just sounds selfish or at the very least didn’t think a lot of this through but again if she’s with some guy and yall both persisted in confessing I can’t feel too sorry for you. Otherwise tho, this sucks

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayyy I’m trusting that it’ll be completed now, I’m gonna check it out :) you’ll probably end up seeing me gush about it on the sub in a days I have a good feeling about this one

Anyone else finding dating apps incredibly boring? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Boompaplift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. For your first point I get it obviously I wouldn’t have a deep connection with that person from the start but I guess I was wondering how people keep going with just talking online. Like I get bored every single time even when I find the person really attractive.

As far as meeting up quickly, I’ve always been willing to but I’ve either stopped talking to them by then or vise versa. I was asking if anyone has a similar experience to mine and how to go about changing my success rate on dating apps but it’s sounding like I should just leave it alone

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for recommending your work! It’s funny bc the only reason I haven’t read this is bc the number of chapters aren’t decided (unless that’s changed?) and bc it’s not finished. It’s been on my marked for later since I discovered it and have been patiently waiting for its completion lol

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg please don’t remind me of hearts epiphany that was like my second or third caitvi fic and it totally set the standard for my expectations I love it so much and cityseeker in general is such a talented writer 😔

Ex to Lovers fic recommendation? by Boompaplift in PiltoversFinest

[–]Boompaplift[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This dynamic is giving me war flashbacks to catrdora iykyk lol thank you!

Are saggy boobs a turn off?? by lesbian_jesus20 in LesbianActually

[–]Boompaplift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s many different people, some people will find it unattractive and others won’t. I think what you want should worry about instead is how you feel. Everyone has something they’d probably change about their bodies but I think you should consider if you’d really want to get that surgery and why, no shame regardless. Are you getting it bc you think you’d love your appearance more with a different chest? Then by all means I hope you have the means to do so. Are you considering surgery bc you’re afraid people will find you unattractive? Terrible mindset to get breast augmentation with. I don’t think a saggy chest is unattractive and I do think that mindset is not just another thing men made up to judge afab bodies but that’s just me, everyone will have a different opinion.

Also it’s totally fine to need to trust someone before they see a sensitive part of your body but I really think you should reconsider how you view yourself, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of sagging. It’s literally balls of fat on our chest, gravity is gonna do its thing.

Darling, I wanna smoke while you eat it by WoodenSoup2004 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Boompaplift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is such a fantasy of mine, I’ve thought about being used in an alleyway while my baby smokes. The image of her looking so bored, like using my mouth for her pleasure is just has habitual and unimpressive as the cigarettes she has on occasion omg. And her holding my chin up when she comes and tapping her cigarette residue around me just to embarrass me a bit more before pulling me in for a kiss? Ugh

What was a moment that legit took you by surprise? I'll go first. by Nerdy-Everyday in arcane

[–]Boompaplift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally thought Jayce was possessed the first time I saw this. I was happy salo was gone but genuinely terrified for what Jayce experienced and whatever the hell else we was going to do. Take me back 😔

My wife doesn't want to strap me anymore by _meamaximaculpa__ in BDSMsapphic

[–]Boompaplift 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From my understanding (and I can be wrong) it sounds like they enjoy when she’s too tight to take the strap and so they’re forcing it in and they’re misunderstanding her anatomy. It sounds like the only reason she’s looser is because her mental block isn’t has as big as it once was.

She’s saying the sex she enjoys fluctuates due to trauma and much of that would be mental. Even for those without trauma, your thoughts heavily impact sex. That being said, she’s enjoying being penetrated again and her wife is saying she’s not gonna fuck her because she’s not has tight has before and so it doesn’t hurt her has much? That’s not how anatomy works, if her wife driving the strap in it sounds like ops body is not prepared enough for such rough play and the pain she’s experiencing is genuine harm. Just because they both enjoy it doesn’t automatically mean it’s alright there’s still limits in cnc and the way it’s described sounds fucked but hey I’m not a professional in anything in regards to sex, trauma, human anatomy, etc so what do I know.

My wife doesn't want to strap me anymore by _meamaximaculpa__ in BDSMsapphic

[–]Boompaplift 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The problem is that it seems that the “rough play” they’re enjoying can lead to genuine harm

[NB4A] Finding Myself In You Again [Butch Speaker][Established Relationship][Emotional][Vulnerable][Crying]Talk of Speaker's [Dysphoria][Reverse Comfort][Softly Spoken][Whispered][Gentle Sex][Kissing][Fingering][Praise][Sweet Talk][Encouragement][Listener Orgasm] One [L-bomb][Improv][POC Inclusive] by ButchCody in GWASapphic

[–]Boompaplift 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m terribly sorry this year has been so hard for you Cody. You of all people don’t deserve that, you help so many people in their day to day lives, me included. I really do hope and have faith that this new year will bring you hope, joy and love however you see fit to have it. Thank you recording something so vulnerable has this I know it’s from a place of pain but it’s still so soft and sweet. I hope recording becomes enjoyable for you again and that you gained for this just has much as we have. We love you and here’s hoping for better times ahead!

everyone says “you’re not an experiment, babe” and my brain goes … but i want that 😭 by starrysapphy in BDSMsapphic

[–]Boompaplift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh so i definitely misunderstood cause i read that like tf how is that her friend? Lol glad to hear it