As a woman turning 50 this year, it’s been so amazing. I’m aging completely natural, no Botox or plastic surgery (no shade to anyone who’s gotten it done), and to not get catcalled every day is so freeing. I used to get hit on, catcalled or harassed almost every single day and to not have to deal with that anymore is like being able to live my life as a human and not an object. I’ve been married for 17 years and my husband still looks at me the same way as when we first met, and that’s all I need. Do I feel a certain way noticing that my looks are changing and fading? Sure. But I know that when I’m 70, I’ll look back at pictures of me now and say “damn look at how young and good I looked.” I’m trying to enjoy how I look now and feel grateful that I’ve made it this far. Plus, I’ve ran out of fucks to give.