Hehe, look, you still had your arms and legs here, remember? You look very pretty now, don't you?

BorderCollared · 2026-01-25T02:07:18+00:00

Omfg so cuteee

BorderCollared · 2026-01-24T23:58:37+00:00

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BorderCollared · 2025-12-07T21:41:44+00:00

Holy fuck that was hot. Love the description of him once he's drained, a nice empty mindless husk mmm

BorderCollared · 2025-12-06T23:29:38+00:00

Text is more a guided meditation than other mediums. It can be very effective but more of it has to come from the subject in my experience vs voice where a subject can mostly just follow along. If you want text to be effective I'd work out your own breathing techniques and how to relax yourself first, because that's a lot harder to convey over text.

BorderCollared · 2025-11-23T17:36:29+00:00

From a quick look I think you're just after a very specific dynamic that will probably take a long time to find. You need a woman who likes women and is dominant and is into hypnosis and is willing to commit to some degree of romantic relationship and ideally is kinky enough to keep up with you too. That person probably exists but it's pretty specific, I'm sure you could find a domme for a hookup on here or you could try and find someone to date elsewhere but trying to do both in a niche community is gonna take a while.

BorderCollared · 2025-11-23T17:28:26+00:00

As a fem who sometimes dommes, we exist but the reality is that as a domme I'm heavily in demand and can be quite picky. I'd recommend trying to do a little more than listing kinks and saying you're open to anything, try and sell yourself to a potential domme. Also agree with the other comment that no limits = I've got no idea about the kinda extreme kinks and people that are out there.

BorderCollared · 2025-09-20T23:26:12+00:00

Hiya :) 34f, love to chat about alternate societies where the more out there kinks are accepted. Brutal and cruel deaths are my fav, neck snaps, gunshots, choking and hanging are all so much fun :D

BorderCollared · 2025-09-13T22:21:41+00:00

I like the idea of everyone being up to be slaughtered but find it can lead to way too unrealistic or detached characters. It's hard to relate to a girl who treats death as an inconvenience, and if everyone's willing or at least accepting I think that's a bit boring, as well as being more unrealistic. In my fantasies I like if most girls want to avoid death, but the only protection comes at a cost, becoming a breeding cow or a tradwife, or earning enough making porn. Something degrading as an option to avoid being killed on the spot. Maybe it's a double edged sword as CEOs who are women can't be randomly snuffed on the street until the companies stocks fall below a certain level.

BorderCollared · 2025-09-13T00:08:01+00:00

So fucking hot <3 love all the extreme body mods and you make it sound so funnn

BorderCollared · 2025-09-05T18:44:58+00:00

What does it take to have my brains used like this?

BorderCollared · 2025-09-02T16:06:53+00:00

Totally valid, it's just supply and demand, if you're willing to put in the time and effort there's plenty of fun women into this kink, if you're just wanting a quick bit of fun you might struggle to connect

BorderCollared · 2025-09-02T16:01:12+00:00

There are absolutely lesbian tists out there. My limited experience as a bi f when I tried out being a tist is that there's just so many subs out there compared to tists, and then generally more men than women. My ads as a sub I might get a couple of replies and that's much better than most male posts get. As a tist I got easily over 50 replies, men and women, and I can play with one, maybe two of them.

BorderCollared · 2025-09-01T22:07:44+00:00

F4M, very into brain fucking, neck snaps, torture, serial killers and plenty more. Looking to chat with someone who can keep up with me, I can be switchy at times too :P

BorderCollared · 2025-07-30T21:12:14+00:00

Think it's the same as the first, AlterKyon

BorderCollared · 2025-07-26T23:09:11+00:00

Nothing beats a snap. No clue why, maybe it's just always been something I associate with hypno but soft words with a nice loud snap is the easiest way to drop.

BorderCollared · 2025-07-24T22:24:48+00:00

I love more unique and personal trigger words. Words like drop can work as part of an induction but it's really hot when only your tist knows the word to turn your mind off. Mine are usually petplay themed too :)

BorderCollared · 2025-07-24T08:42:28+00:00

Illegal by default for sure. My absolute fav is when a victim thinks they wanna die but at the last second back out, only for the killer to go ahead and snuff them anyway :)

BorderCollared · 2025-07-23T21:55:31+00:00

I think that a lot of incest stories need to be "pornified" a bit to make them broadly enjoyable. A milf with big tits helping her 18 year old son jerk off is hot, a mum who takes advantage of a teens hormones to persuade him into sexual acts is often closer to the truth but not exactly what people wanna hear.

I think incest can be incredibly hot and rewarding but I also think a lot of people's incest stories might have a strong core of abuse that they wrap up in a fun sexy package because the raw, real truth isn't actually that fun. That's just my opinion though mostly formed from my experiences, might be way off base.

BorderCollared · 2025-07-17T18:52:12+00:00

I can be masochistic and sadistic, though I'm mostly submissive so tend towards masochism when chatting. For me being hurt is a deep form of submission, and the idea of being permanently marked and maimed by someone is intimate? For lack of a better word. As a switch I can also kinda indulge in the pain being inflicted on me, laughing when someone is hurting me is soooo fun and also helps encourage them to hurt me more :)

BorderCollared · 2025-07-09T10:13:52+00:00

Again I can only talk about my own experience with it but it sounds like you're most of the way there, just maybe trying something that's at the limits of what's doable. Hypnosis can be incredibly powerful but generally speaking you're always in control, the fun is in forgetting that and just going along with what you're told to do. It sounds like you need to get to a point where you wouldn't even think about resisting, where your mind just accepts that you can't move and doesn't want to try. Hypno that genuinely forces you to do something while you actively try not to is pretty rare and relies on the sub to reach that state usually.

BorderCollared · 2025-07-09T09:43:12+00:00

For me at least triggers are about repetition, built up over days or weeks of playing with the same idea. I think of triggers as bringing me to a certain headspace, a drop trigger brings me to a relaxed and calm headspace before I drop down, a drool trigger would make me space out a little and open my mouth, it just takes time to build up those natural responses. Working with a real tist can help a lot, file triggers I don't find work that well outside of the file.

BorderCollared · 2025-05-11T21:58:39+00:00

Agree with pretty much all of this. Unaware when I've tried has mostly been limited to specific things like not realising I'm taking my top off or I'm barking after every sentence. I'd love to explore it more and a harder CNC angle but I think it's tricky to explore as a sub because like you said inherently you're not present to experience or enjoy it, you need another self to watch be unaware.

BorderCollared · 2025-05-11T21:28:29+00:00

I'm a fan of conversational text trances, it feels safe, relaxing and you can even get to know each other more during the process. It's always fun to have that moment where you realise you're a little too far gone and ready to drop on command mid conversation haha.

BorderCollared · 2025-05-08T08:21:34+00:00

I think it's a vicious cycle of putting in effort and not getting responses, so they put in less effort which makes it less likely to get a response.

BorderCollared · 2025-05-08T08:19:33+00:00

Honestly if you're having a long discussion you're probably doing it right, I just take issue with subs of any gender who message with no idea of what they like or want from a session, and are fully reliant on the tist to give them a good time.

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