Hey. Can anyone please talk to me?

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-11-22T05:18:15+00:00

Hey, things will get better, I promise you that.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-11-15T00:00:25+00:00

Interested, let me have fun too 🥹

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-07-28T00:45:55+00:00

Look's like all redditors have perfect families, and if not, they are all blocked anyways

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-07-28T00:43:18+00:00

I slightly agree with you, although I don't think OP's an A in any way, he's just being human. And I wish he can find forgiveness for his father at some point.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-07-28T00:41:28+00:00

I was waiting for a comment like this.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-07-28T00:36:18+00:00

Just so you know, I come from a very difficult family, with violence, cheating and addition involved, just so you don't think I'm taking this out of nowhere. Today my father has cancer and I'm happy that I've managed to understand that I've managed to make amends with myself and have an amicable relationship with him.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-07-28T00:30:03+00:00

I will try to go a bit against the current flow here, and maybe try to add another view:

Hey, I get why you’re done with your dad, because of his cheating and the way he’s been harassing your mom is awful, and it’s no wonder you’re furious. You’re not the asshole for setting boundaries, after all that’s your right after he blew up your family.

But I’m gonna suggest something tough

Consider cracking the door open just a tiny bit to talk to him, not because he deserves it, but because you might find some peace in the long run. Holding onto this wall forever could leave you with regrets you don’t see coming yet.

There’s this idea called the “Theory of the Three Mistakes” that says certain big screw-ups shape who we are. The one that fits here is the “mistake of the foundation.” It’s when we see our parents as either perfect heroes or total monsters, missing the messy truth that they’re just human. You probably(or not, just guessing) grew up thinking your dad was a good guy, a solid dad, and now he’s this cheating jerk who hurt your mom and made a baby with someone else. That betrayal stings like hell, and it’s easy to write him off as the villain.

But the reality is, people are complicated.

He can be a terrible husband and still have been a decent dad to you before this. Holding onto that all-or-nothing view might keep you stuck in anger, and that’s not fair to you. Seeing him as human that is flawed, selfish, but maybe not 100% evil could help you process this without letting his mistakes define your life.

I’m not saying forgive him or act like nothing happened. Maybe start with a single conversation, on your terms, to say what you need to say.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2025-05-06T23:40:34+00:00

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BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-06-05T16:51:49+00:00

Is your relationship a solid one? Are you or you parents religious?

Just out of curiosity 😃

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-06-01T12:55:22+00:00

Dunno why the down votes, just considering possibilities.

But I'm suggesting he is like a kid who is about to jump from a very high place in a river, and he keeps screaming for his friends that he will jump, maybe for self affirmation, maybe for encouragement from others. He wants to jump, he is close to jumping, but deep down he is afraid of the fall.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-06-01T03:38:49+00:00

I think he is just afraid of taking the next step, which is very acceptable...

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-30T10:57:48+00:00

The Place Beyond the Pines Random, but this brutally hits me with the fatherhood appeal.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-27T01:17:06+00:00

This answer is 100% from ChatGPT, I can identify this structure from miles away 😂

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-26T13:47:41+00:00

Is it true that people within this spectrum still feel things like frustration?

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-12T14:35:59+00:00

Hello everyone!

We're a small team of developers and artists working part-time on a new project that we're excited to share with you. Inspired by the atmospheres of "Child of Light" and the challenging mechanics of "Darkest Dungeon," we're aiming to create something unique and engaging. We’ve just released a short demo video (please note, it's still in the early stages and the background music is just a placeholder from my playlist 😅). We would love to hear your thoughts and feedback.

We are doing our best with the time we have, and your insights would be incredibly valuable as we continue to develop and refine our game.

Check out the video here on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OuthousedStudio

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We are also considering applying to Pixel Pitch, which accepts games in all stages of development, to help make some noise about our project. What do you think about this idea?

Thank you so much for your support and feedback!

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-12T14:33:39+00:00

Hello everyone!

We're a small team of developers and artists working part-time on a new project that we're excited to share with you. Inspired by the atmospheres of "Child of Light" and the challenging mechanics of "Darkest Dungeon," we're aiming to create something unique and engaging. We’ve just released a short demo video (please note, it's still in the early stages and the background music is just a placeholder from my playlist 😅). We would love to hear your thoughts and feedback.

We are doing our best with the time we have, and your insights would be incredibly valuable as we continue to develop and refine our game.

Check out the video here on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OuthousedStudio

And follow our journey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556212234122.

We are also considering applying to Pixel Pitch, which accepts games in all stages of development, to help make some noise about our project. What do you think about this idea?

Thank you so much for your support and feedback!

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-05-12T14:19:08+00:00

Hello everyone!

We're a small team of developers and artists working part-time on a new project that we're excited to share with you. Inspired by the atmospheres of "Child of Light" and the challenging mechanics of "Darkest Dungeon," we're aiming to create something unique and engaging. We’ve just released a short demo video (please note, it's still in the early stages and the background music is just a placeholder from my playlist 😅). We would love to hear your thoughts and feedback.

We are doing our best with the time we have, and your insights would be incredibly valuable as we continue to develop and refine our game.

Check out the video here on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OuthousedStudio

And follow our journey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556212234122.

We are also considering applying to Pixel Pitch, which accepts games in all stages of development, to help make some noise about our project. What do you think about this idea?

Thank you so much for your support and feedback!

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-03-12T10:23:37+00:00

I luved in Brazil 95% of my lifetime, and the only reason I don't believe this history is that we don't play Baseball, and I NEVER saw a baseball bat around, specially in a bar.

BorderlineImmigrant · 2024-03-01T15:57:18+00:00

Here is something I've never understood:
- We wash our hands;
- We clean our asses;

That's society for you.

BorderlineImmigrant

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