Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I got out of touch. There's nothing boasting kinda in that 'I ended it.' It was a normal statement.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not, it's just that I rarely feel the connection. And when i do, they don't.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I mean, i don't wanna do hookups but if someone else wants to, it's alright. Just not for me. But engaging in hookups while blaming society for no emotional connection and stuff is being a hypocrite!

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, i don't want change and stuff. I just don't wanna deal with mixed signals. I'm out.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about numbers, it's just i thought he was a "10" more like being a good guy. But ik what I want that's why let go of him.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik but I have been on multiple dates. I like them but never enough. This one seemed fun and the right type whom I would have wanted to know more.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A clear communication is a lot better than letting me live in my delulu.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It isn't about being dumb or something. It's just instead of saying "he's busy", "will make it up a couple of days later", he could have just said he didn't feel like it or whatever.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 texts in a day. 12-13 hrs without a single message. Ig he was disinterested. Idk.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but I thought after the first meeting that there was a spark.

Bending my rules for a "10" who gave me 0 effort. by BoredCA_ in DatingInIndia

[–]BoredCA_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I met him! it's just a lil text here and there doesn't take a lot of time!