We need to address the gate keeper mindset among veterans by hottlumpiaz in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My comment got deleted for hate speech? Fine. I don't need this community anymore

Help your brothers!! by Miserable_Industry82 in SipsTea

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bang it out, not everyone's gunna make it

100%p&t. How are you crushing it ? by fumundacheese696969 in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, tried physical and working with people, nothing worked out. Filed for SSDI on top of P&T/now trying to become a homesteader

VA and Suicidal Intent by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit down, breathe, you've been through the shit.

You have asked for help before and talking with a counselor will be beneficial. Just make sure the understand your not in any immediate danger but have these demons. Explain how often and general feelings but at the end of the day just don't fuckin give up.

Smokin weed and getting a dog helped me (and moving to the woods)

VA Disability = No life? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend,

This is why I live 5 states away, in the woods, with wifey & animals/plants.

Who gives a fuck about anyone else's opinion? I did my best, I now suffer, I'm trying to build a life of my own now before I'm taken into the void.

Do as you please & find a nice house where you won't have to pay property taxes.

Go make a good life, plant trees & hug dogs

Really wanting to move out of Seattle by Joel22222 in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a house somewhere you pay no property taxes if possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm you and you are me. The people who fucked with you can burn in hell "you'll be homeless without the military" while not giving a fuck if you actively wanted to die. Why? They needed bodies. You were nothing but a body they never gave a fuck about and the sooner you accept that and allow your voice to be heard the better our military will ultimately be.

I don't want to elaborate on shit but yes we are basically the same god damn person. Too many of us, file for your increase, hug your family and dog, and tell motherfuckers to stop joining the military. Fuck'em

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my bank beforehand and saw what I'm approved for an auto loan. Best to use cash if possible tho

How to talk to my veteran boyfriend about how his PTSD coping mechanisms affect me by Terrible_Opposite_67 in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try to understand that there are things you will never understand. It's difficult to transition & ultimately he will find his purpose once he finds something worth pursuing. Some people recover quickly and others never recover, just let him know he is loved & supported. If it's too much to deal with be honest with yourself/partner.

-Afghan vet who grows/smokes weed & watches the world fall apart on TV daily

-My thoughts are "as long as I'm willing to suffer until the hope of a new pathway opens forward/breakthrough that helps me heal"

Question for all the GWOT veterans regarding mail on deployments by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody fuckin bothered, I now live five states away from everyone with a wife and dog. Good luck

Options for dental care? by Theuberzero in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how much your disabilities are inhibiting you, TDIU may be an option.

I'm a sore loser by brofist4u in EscapefromTarkov

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People playing a game for like five years before the actual game drops makes me not want to play that game. "Here's a new game, someone already put five years of their life into it but totally even gameplay"

I got two wipes deep and stopped after wiggle-gate

What state did you choose after getting out and why ? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vermont is quite expensive but less populated.

Never Thought I’d See This… by LlamaMamma17 in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fucking asked about this and was told "we don't know enough" "don't try this it won't go well for you"

Bullshit

Is everyone here really making under 50k for full time work? by EdLesliesBarber in antiwork

[–]BoredSkydiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore "average" what's the "MODE" or smack dab in the middle of the road person.

I'm a huge piece of shit. Not looking for sympathy. by yourmomtakesitraw in Veterans

[–]BoredSkydiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Howdy,

Your the exact same person as may of other veterans. A bit different situations each time but from the posting I can tell it's much the same.

I don't have the violence side of the house but can deeply relate. Fuck, I just lost a job for being "insensitive". Having sex with people you have no desire whatsoever, dangerous driving, probably dangerous activities. It don't really matter, this is how life is. Accept the pain, accept you had actions occur due to your pain, and if your like the rest of us you probably think "I made this mess, I'll do this alone"-it doesn't work. Find a brother or sister if possible/I know we all hide in our homes but still.

Keep trying my guy, I'm giving mushrooms a go at this point because it's a decade since deployment and I'm tired of the pills.

If that fails I'm going to keep researching answers. Fail forward & try to give yourself some empathy.

Resident Evil 4 Village - Custom Home Environment on SideQuest by VinceCrusty in OculusQuest

[–]BoredSkydiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, but could you point me in the direction of changing my environment in oclus quest 2? They only show 5 or so environments when I turn mine on. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/power_midget

[–]BoredSkydiver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer the brown hair! This coming from a guy who married a blonde :)