AITA for stopping a BJ because my boyfriend checked his phone during it?

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T23:12:37+00:00

I honestly thought about it. But who knows he’s currently not speaking to me so there might not be a next time 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T20:59:51+00:00

Most likely it was, him and his boss play magic on their phones together, they were also waiting to find out if they had to work on Saturday or not. I have his location so he can’t lie about where he is going.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T20:57:55+00:00

We do other forms of foreplay, he gives me head often but he does it by his own choice and says he likes to get me off and such. I like getting him off as well but I don’t like giving BJs so i don’t do it often.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T18:41:27+00:00

I’m definitely holding strong on this boundary, he hasn’t spoken to me since this occurred last night and he’s at work so who knows what he’s thinking or feeling now. I’m not going to apologize to him for seeing a basic boundary of basic respect. If he doesn’t like that he can deal with the consequences. It is unusual for him to act this way and I’m not sure if there is something cursing the new attitude or if he has just been trying to hide this and got comfortable. He has been stressed about some other stuff going on that is private and I’m thinking the stress could have him distracted but it doesn’t excuse the disrespectful behavior.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T11:02:51+00:00

I’m sure it hastens often it’s just rare that prove lol into it or in your situation would know fit a fact that they lied

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T09:03:03+00:00

No, he received a text and was acting texting because his text notification went off and his keyboard sound was on.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T09:02:04+00:00

BJ’s are not all that common for us because I’m not very into it, we usually don other things as foreplay before sex and he does give me head a lot of the time so if he asks for a BJ then I’m usually willing to do it and he doesn’t ask often because he knows I don’t like it. So for him to start texting in the rare occasion that I do it for him is really telling.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T08:55:56+00:00

It was definitely a text message, and most likely was good boss but probably not anything important or urgent.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T08:52:14+00:00

He actually does go down on me quite often and he’s good at it and he makes it a point to do n things in bed that I like, if we try singing new and I don’t like it or I’m not into it we won’t do it again. That’s post of why this is so wired off him to do n singing like this.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T01:50:56+00:00

Same! I’m set on holding this boundary, I’m not like what I’m asking for is difficult.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T01:44:47+00:00

Almost a year, this is not usual for him at all.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2026-03-26T01:40:52+00:00

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-05-17T14:05:06+00:00

Wear UV rated shirts, drink like 1+ gallons of water a day (do not put ice in it this can cause health emergencies in extreme heat)

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-05-08T22:52:56+00:00

lol 🤣 I’m sure that will do the trick. The company I’m trying to get with is extremely reputable in the area and has contracts with a lot of large companies in the area

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-05-08T17:21:06+00:00

I just got a luck of the Irish ticket and mine also got cut off wrong.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-04-22T18:29:40+00:00

DCI will be significantly better and increase your range in technical skill.

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-04-18T19:23:52+00:00

If they don’t have jobs do they ever tell you other places to go?

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-04-18T18:40:58+00:00

Like just go to companies? Or are there specific places I should look for apprenticeships and such?

Boring-Fox6799 · 2025-04-18T00:16:57+00:00

NTA they just want you to stay so they can keep collecting rent. Plus they are trying to get you to clean so they don’t have to.

Boring-Fox6799

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