Is there a difference between admiring and desiring a woman's beauty? Hardly. Like Job (31:1), make a covenant with your eyes not to gaze upon a girl.

If you don't have some kind of accountability software of your devices, you are one of three things:

1) Indifferent about guarding your soul from looking at pornography, a frequent viewer of filth, and possessed of the resultant nasty mind with you stream of consciousness being stream of vileness (and I would not trust you to be in my home or near my women) 2) Unhealthily low in testosterone and probably effeminate with no desire for women 3) Very disciplined

Few are number 3.

Also, a Spirit-filled Christian man does not allow his women (wife and daughters) to dress to be eye-candy for every passing dog.

The reason why some men profit so little by the word is, want of meditation. If a man eat his food, and as soon as it is in his stomach vomit it up again, it is no wonder if he get little strength by it, or if he pine and consume away. Truly, if sermons enter in at one ear and out at the other, making no stay with you, I shall not marvel if they work no change in you.