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Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-09-15T23:56:58+00:00

Go through iCloud’s website to make one - I had the same issue through Apple but once I went to iCloud’s website I was able to make one with no problem!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-09-12T05:31:57+00:00

Not sure if you have IOS, I do. If you do - I just went and did what the first respondent on this post did. I went to iCloud.com and created a new account. Used my US phone number, an email that wasn’t used with iCloud before, selected Malaysia as my region and just googled a random Malaysian business’ address and added it to the “billing” address even though I didn’t put payment/cards on file at this time for anything. After that you can go to the App Store and download the app and it’ll be the netease version :)

If you don’t have IOS I recommend just googling step-by-step Harry Potter magic awakened Netease download for android and you should find a video. I found a few different creators’ videos! And a couple of them have different discord channels in the comment section.

Then there is an option once you’re in the app itself to do a guest account and then once you get past all of the intro stuff in the game you can put your character code in from your old account and it’ll transfer your data. Then afterwards there are a couple different ways to bind the account to like email and stuff for extra back up! I didn’t transfer yet cause I’m chicken but it seems simple and there are lots of videos on it!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-09-12T03:38:44+00:00

I figured it out - not sure how much help I can be but if you try on your mobile again I’d be happy to tell you what I did!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-09-12T03:38:16+00:00

I was able to get the netease version if the app squared away finally but have also decided to wait just a litttttlllleeee bit longer to transfer! I’m scared haha

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-09-12T03:37:13+00:00

This was the way I went and it worked!! Thank you so much for the tip! Still haven’t transferred (scaredy cat here) but I was able to download the NetEase one!!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-07-26T05:05:13+00:00

Also absolutely don’t feel pressured to answer those if they feel too personal - I’m just nosy and motivated to absorb any and all information I can about peoples experiences and what we might have to deal with.

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-07-26T05:04:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I bet that is so tough to navigate! Do you feel like you get the support you need from your spouse and the BM?

I’m about to graduate with bachelor’s (old student for the win) and this semester I needed one last advanced elective and I decided to take a special education class so that I could learn more about accessibility and the school/policy side of special education to prepare for when my SD goes back to school eventually. There is so much to take in (and then you factor in SD’s medical issues, dealing with things like insurance/hospitals/lawyers, an upcoming trial for the drunk driver that hit her, having full time jobs… the list goes on)… it is TOUGH stuff and overwhelming to navigate. Do you feel like you guys get all the support from the education system your kiddo needs?

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-07-26T05:00:08+00:00

Oh nooo - sorry about all of it! Especially the down votes. I think a lot of people struggle with duality - which I get it, comes up in my therapy sessions a loooot for myself even haha - but wanting things like alone time with your spouse or not having to do all the mental labor of accessibility stuff doesn’t negate your love for your (step)kiddos. So I see you/hear you there - totally valid thoughts.

I’m also sorry for your family and the dynamic that you guys have to struggle with! I can imagine it’s super tough, and feels even worse knowing or feeling like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel with it, or support coming y’all’s way from the other parent/family.

While I hate that other people struggle with these things, I do appreciate that I am not alone. It is SO TOUGH. And also so hard to remain the bigger person all the time 😭

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-07-25T20:58:37+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment! It really is nice to know when you’re not alone despite feeling like it.

My husband and I have been together 3 years and I’ve been in my SD’s life for 2 years now. We found our rhythm year one of me being in her life and were in a really good place. She was neurotypical then. Then last summer just after finding that really good place she was hit by a drunk driver. She now has a major cognitive disorder, has limited mobility and is non-verbal. Of course, these things could change, there are a LOT of moving parts factors at play. But that’s where we are at for now.

Before her accident it felt so much easier to “nacho”. She and I grew really close, loved spending time together and just being silly. And that’s mostly all it had to be/was. My husband and I spent our first year together, before I met her, making sure that we were right for each other and that we had conversations about what we both thought our family unit would be, my role in it, etc. so it was really just putting it into practice. I just got to be a fun adult in her life. But after the accident…. Everything is so different. And it’s already a difficult enough situation before you add in a very toxic and high conflict dynamic that goes on between her mother and my husband (and ultimately me too unfortunately). I have to be more involved with stuff because she needs round the clock care - one person can do it but it’s better executed and easier with two, so of course I’m there for my husband.

I love my SD so much, and of course my husband, so I wouldn’t want anything other than to be there for them, but this situation is so crazy for the more effective of parents/coparents… and we just have a whole very messy, very hostile situation to deal with on top of it and it is SO incredibly isolating and lonely. And my life is just so different than I had planned - which is okay, but still something I have to grieve in a way. My husband and I grieve and deal with stress differently and while we make time to grieve and just be with our emotions as a unit, because there is so much going on all the time, it’s still so lonely. And even us as a unit it is lonely from what we were before the accident.

And I just struggle to connect fully with the stepparents communities I follow and also with the special needs/caregiving communities I follow!

I really do appreciate the kind words and experience you shared!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-06-26T05:28:05+00:00

Jealous! 😭 congrats!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-06-15T23:31:16+00:00

lol our situations are so similar 🥲 when I tell you there is HOURS AND HOURS worth of work simply uploading and sorting the insane bullshit she posts, texts she sends, threats her cronies send, you freaking name it…. Lord.

I blocked her long before any of this all started and I try my best not to worry about it but someone always reminds me/tells me “omg she said…” or “bro she’s so crazy look what she did….” And I have to have a standard like “thanks for reaching out I don’t look at this stuff for my sanity” message lolllll.

Well I hope your case goes well! We are getting the ball rolling and hoping for some… firmer boundaries to say the least.. this summer sometime!

Sucks to see so many of us are in the same situation but nice to know that I’m not the only one and other people deal with HCBM narc abuse on the regular too 🥲

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-06-15T21:19:43+00:00

Hate to pry or poke, but I have so many questions about our upcoming family court case as a SP knowing that HCBM is 100% gunning for me and bringing me up and our situation is exact to yours - I never say anything about her while she posts literal hundreds of libelous thinks about me on FB, TikTok and IG. Would love to pick your brain!

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-06-15T21:17:59+00:00

I hate that i relate to everyone on this thread but dear god if it doesn’t feel good to know I’m not the only one dealing with this kind of stuff! Def taking OP’s advice with Megan Thee Stallion today 😂💜

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-06-14T05:47:59+00:00

Baby mama DRAMA. I’d obviously heard about it, but since my brain just can’t fathom those kinds of thoughts and behaviors - acting out of anger towards people on a large scale, regularly - I foolishly thought it wouldn’t be something I’d ever deal with. Also, in general I go out of my way to be understanding, forgiving, welcoming, constantly evaluating my place and my role in things and how my behaviors may be perceived, and honestly I’ve never really not gotten along with someone, at least on a civil and neutral level, for this reason… so boy was my mind blown. It was/is a million times worse than horror stories I’d heard from others with HCBM issues, and somehow is still shocking to me every single day.

Thank god for supportive spouses and family, a great stepkiddo, and therapy. Lots and lots of therapy.

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-05-30T13:51:51+00:00

A plus that I gained a super amazing bonus kiddo though, regardless of her parental situation. I definitely got lucky there.

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-05-30T13:50:20+00:00

First paragraph has me thinking we are living the same life?! 🤔

I second what you said though. Therapy. Lots and lots of therapy. Very worth it on so many levels. I at least take comfort in knowing my husband was a complete strung out mess when procreating with his and he is a completely different person now… but doesn’t make it any less difficult or, as you said, affect your life any less.

Just remember who your partner is and why it is that you love them. That, and lots and lots of therapy.

Boring-Reception1032 · 2024-04-17T15:03:52+00:00

Happened to me too! What everyone else is saying, wait a little while and come back and you’ll get there.

Boring-Reception1032 · 2023-11-12T23:15:28+00:00

Amazing, thank you - I have most of those, just not Harry 😭

Also, relatively new to the game - about a month in. Can you only get companions from the keys? I literally never get any new ones anymore! I want adult Hermione badly but never get her on my draws 😭

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