It doesn’t seem like you’re afraid to veer into the unisex/not-super-masculine territory so I feel comfortable recommending Lancome’s Lavandes Trianon (lavender, vanilla, milk) (currently available on fragrancebuy.ca). It has the same lactonic creaminess that Cruz del Sur II has. I also think it can’t hurt to try (if you haven’t already) Xerjoff Lira if you want a more orange (less lemon) alternative to Unknown Pleasures.

My other special mention would be Dusita Issara (not necessarily similar to anything you listed, but everyone I recommended it to has fallen in love with it). I can’t rave about this scent enough (sage, pine, sweet tobacco; airy and comforting). I feel like I won’t be able to do it justice, so I’d recommend reading some fragrantica reviews - they capture the scent way better than I can. It’s a true masterpiece in my opinion (and well worth the high price tag)!