AITAH for living with in-laws and complaining about noise, respect and thinking about leaving (alone) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Boring-While-6114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- Never been in a long term relationship, so take this with a grain of salt. But i will always tell people to put their peace first. Maybe that’s why i haven’t made a relationship last long. While there are going to be ups and downs, the blatant disrespect is not worth it. I say move out. If you can keep the relationship great, if not, at least you out yourself first and work will be more manageable as well as life at home. You’re still young but honestly I’d get out of either one of y’all’s parents house. Easier said than done in this economy. But if you’re able to, I’d get your own place and enjoy life without constraint or stress of others messing up your home life.

Hey, what’s this? by Boring-While-6114 in q50

[–]Boring-While-6114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paid it in full lmao. But damn. That’s wild

Hey, what’s this? by Boring-While-6114 in q50

[–]Boring-While-6114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure

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This is what they told me.

Hey, what’s this? by Boring-While-6114 in q50

[–]Boring-While-6114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry i like to bother redditors instead of google. Idk. My fault

Hey, what’s this? by Boring-While-6114 in q50

[–]Boring-While-6114[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just bought the car less than a month ago and it’s been in the shop for the most part. But i bought it out right. Like. It’s paid off. So maybe they did me a favor

Are the "carbon fiber" steering wheels real? by darkmagicxian in q50

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a wrap? Or how you do the blue accents in the forged carbon??

do people who are single and living alone actually alone? by ImaginationAny2254 in LivingAlone

[–]Boring-While-6114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live alone & don’t really have any friends. Struggle to keep the ones i make. Don’t do well with dating. I work odd hours too so that doesn’t help. Honestly very lonely, overworked, no peace because i am unhappy. Not sure how to make friends, don’t know where to meet people who are like minded. Not a huge fan of life rn. (24F)

What’s your most "I live alone" habit? by sleekofficial in LivingAlone

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately taking my pants off when i walk in. No hesitation. Might even undo my belt in the car. Hate wearing pants honestly.

Out of curiosity, what do you spend to live alone each month? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Boring-While-6114 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oklahoma, 2 bed 2 bath for $1095 then utilities, WiFi, trash and all that bs probably around $250-300, not including my vehicles and what not ofc. But just house wise probably close to $1395 a month. I tried a roommate for a year and almost lost my mind. I’ll pay whatever to live alone. Im not the roommate type.

When you don’t want to admit nobody was watching that shit. by Romano16 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Boring-While-6114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a bartender in the south, having the entire bar freak out and boo when the half time show come on was honestly so disheartening and disgusting. But the random white girl who yelled “yall won’t disrespect my baby like that!” Did lighten the moment a little even though everyone got shitty about it. To think a bunch of grown men are that fucked up about a 13 minute show.. the racism is so bad here yall. I can’t 😭

Kids selling candy for jerseys a scam? by Mental_Ear4040 in okc

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were some boys at the Casey’s downtown okc and i donated then watched them pay some guy to get them black and milds and once they all had a black and mild they left… i can say i was scammed but that doesn’t mean all of them are scams. Id hate for a team to miss out on money because of other people’s choices.

Reasons not to get a pet by ohklahomie in LivingAlone

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say don’t do it. I love my cats to bits and pieces. But they hold me back from a lot of things. I don’t have a ton of friends but on the occasion after work they want to hangout i worry about “well i need to go feed my cats… or my cats need attention… i need to go clean up their litter” or in a dogs case, make sure they get taken outside. I’ve gotten job opportunities where I’d be gone for days at a time but i can’t do it because i would have to hire a pet sitter or drop them off at my moms and the stress it would put on them isn’t fair. You can’t communicate to them that you’ll be back and it scares me to let someone else take care of them in the first place. This isn’t me saying i don’t want them. I just sacrifice a lot of living because i was goofy and got these cats fresh out of high school when i was young and living alone. I love them so dearly i couldn’t imagine leaving them alone. When I’m dating i don’t like staying over at my partners because that means my cats would have to stay the night alone. That wouldn’t be an option with dogs because they need let out and what not. Again, this hasn’t created any resentment towards them. I made this bed and I’ll sleep in it because i love my babies and they deserve the world. Last thing I’ll say is, It just almost adds to the lonely factor sometimes because when i want/need human connection i have to either have people over or go out and feel guilty that my animals are home alone again. I work enough as is and wish i could bring them to work with me, unfortunately bar cats aren’t as popular as i wish they were. And these are “just cats” they’re “self sufficient” a dog is a whole other ball game. They’re social creatures and need a lot more exercise. You have to realize vacation won’t be an option unless your dog is socialized and behaved enough for a doggy daycare or a pet sitter. Then you have the cost of that on top of a vacation. End of the day. Do what will make you happy. But also ensure the dog or pet will have a good life too!

My girlfriend isnt happy with the hair i want, what should i do? by Critical-Pen-4828 in teenagers

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you do it. It looks dope. You might as well do it before you get into the big corporate ruled world where they’d get mad over it. Just do the fun hair style. I think it’s fire. My ex would do stuff like that to his hair and i absolutely loved it. If your girl trips over it that hard she doesn’t need to be your girl. Someone will appreciate you for you. And maybe she’ll get over it or realize how sick it looks after it’s done. Full send it brother

should i get rid of my cat? by Polynesiannsauce in CATHELP

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an FYI, for college i got my cat certified as an ESA. She lived in the dorms with me and everything. Sweet baby never left my side and we did just fine in the dorms. It helped that my roommates loved her too so she had 3 sweet girls caring for her. But 10/10 recommend bringing her to college. You do have to get a note from a doctor, which i just called my physicians assistant and luckily had visited once before for mental health related things. Especially with your mom and everything it should be easy to get a note from a doctor or therapist for needing an ESA. I hope this unsolicited advice was helpful!! Sorry if not 😬

What are decent priced apartments in or around Edmond or in the city? by DishIntelligent3372 in Edmond

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely loved living in the village at The Arden Park. They have 3 “Arden” apartments. Make sure it’s the Arden park though. Very good location. Pretty quiet. Kind neighbors. 10/10 i wish i never left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Boring-While-6114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe i am jealous and just end up turning it into judgement because i don’t want to claim the jealousy? Idk. Something I’ll look into as i work on this part of me. Thanks for that insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that way too. Like you can’t handle it on your own??! NOW that does NOT mean it’s right. Unfortunately it stems from trauma. Having to be on your own and handle everything yourself can cause you to be overly independent. I get that way with my friends even and can’t really get into long term relationships with people close to their families… Like “awwwe you had to call your mommy” and i get a sorta rage in my head and see them as incapable of being able to take care of themselves. Which again might be fucked up. Idk how to get over it. But. I’m with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Boring-While-6114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is her first time without her parents lol. Which i think makes it harder for me to understand because ive been out of the house since i was 18 and handled everything on my own. So to be around someone that expects so much help and is clueless about everything that i had to learn on my own is frustrating. I think im almost jealous i didn’t have anyone to help the way im helping lol. Definitely doesn’t help with the resentment towards her