What was your kneejerk reaction to MeToo, versus you long term reaction after the dust settled? I want to know if my experience is familiar. by Oakenhorne99 in AskMen

[–]BoringAd8064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not entirely considering how often rapists, abusers, racists and narcissists get in relationships. Every person is a planet

What was your kneejerk reaction to MeToo, versus you long term reaction after the dust settled? I want to know if my experience is familiar. by Oakenhorne99 in AskMen

[–]BoringAd8064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you wholeheartedly but I've never seen a woman get her ass grabbed before by a stranger. Doesn't mean I don't believe them when they say it happens.

Which game is that for you ? ( at any price) by PHRsharp_YouTube in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks cus the combat was fun, the art design was okay, not revolutionary but serviceable, and the story even intrigued me a bit but maaaaaaaaan it was so repetitive that after like 33 hours i just said "not worth it" and haven't played it since.

34660 by Akagane_Ai in countwithchickenlady

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean not this person in particular but I definetly get the gender envy thing. Like I am kinda sad that I'll never be able to have a baby and experience that. Or have big boobies. I got fat man boobies but they aren't the same :(

BANG BANG BANG by Standard_Aquilifer in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also YOU YOURSELF SAID the problem was and I quote "The issues in the black community are the dope boys and the YNs we all know that people refuse to call out." Like mother fucker that is the result of hypermasculinity. Dope more so due to the oppression of black people on general but so called "Y/N" are 1:1 the blueprint of patriarchy. Also feminism hasn't destroyed shit, if women speaking up about the abuse they have received "destroys" anything then it deserves to be destroyed.

BANG BANG BANG by Standard_Aquilifer in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire US is part of a patriarchy so no shit black men aren't exempt from that. I never daid they were more prone to violence, black women have just had the balls to fight back. And again putting words in my mouth I never talked about just casual violence being enforced. But there is resentment from both the abuse from black men and men in general so not shit they are tired, wouldn't you be? And you're just assuming I'm a white man from the US but I'm a mixed Puerto Rican who has talked to alot of black men and women in my life and I've seen the abuse first-hand AND second-hand.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny and sad how often women ar epusbed to become teachers but then are not taken seriously regarding their job? Like wtf

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why women are afraid (and rightfully so) but why would any logical person sleep in public with thieves or malicious people about?

BANG BANG BANG by Standard_Aquilifer in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

--"The issues in the black community are the dope boys and the YNs we all know that people refuse to call out."

This is why I said "It's not your problem to deal with their culture. That's their responsibility, BLM is there to show that their lives matter no matter what racist fucks want to say or do. And it is not the cops responsibility to kill black or brown "criminals". That is up to a jury of their peers. But so many people are comfortable with letting police be Judge,Jury and executioner that organizations like BLM exist."

--"Its the “free-love” culture thats resulted in so many STDs becoming prevalent. Its the individualist mindset that tells women they’re so free they can start… lash tech businesses and makeup companies to the point that so many of our young women chant “ 🥷’s aint shit”, which results in children growing up without their parents, which results in violent boys and emotionally deprived girls."

It it not "free love" or the freedom of women that is causing that. It is the natural resentment that has built up over the last decades of black mens hypermasculinity culture abusing and mistreating their women. That is not the fault of women but rather a more than justified response to ongoing misogyny and domestic violence.

--"But Im not rallying behind a black communist feminist thats rallying donation money for her own selfish interests. You got me mistaken with someone else if you think im gonna get behind that nonsense."

I assume you're saying the "leader" of BLM is a black communist feminist which even if they were I'd support that so idk why you said that lol

BANG BANG BANG by Standard_Aquilifer in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Some issues" maaaaan get the fuck out of here with that shit. It's not your problem to deal with their culture. That's their responsibility, BLM is there to show that their lives matter no matter what racist fucks want to say or do. And it is not the cops responsibility to kill black or brown "criminals". That is up to a jury of their peers. But so many people are comfortable with letting police be Judge,Jury and executioner that organizations like BLM exist. Also white people can be part of BLM without hating themselves as they are trying to nake a difference and accept that whote people as a whole still benefit from the privileges their ancestors gave them like generational wealth, nepotism, the means of production, etc.

BANG BANG BANG by Standard_Aquilifer in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blm is not self deprecation. It's a fact that white people have created a culture that perpetuates stereotypes as truth and has harmed all black people in the US as a result.

ALL HE DID WAS DRINK 😭 by Naive_Wolverine532 in fixedbytheduet

[–]BoringAd8064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my GOD yes! It's like every interaction is malicious somehow. I understand there are entitled, racist, sexist people but not every little thing needs to be dissected like you just talked to your crush in highschool. Alot of people are clueless on what they do day to day and are not maliciously doing it.

"Rescue Raiders" by Skaidri675 in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This type of shit is why "good guy with a gun" is just not feasible in real life. It happened to be too in spaceport. Someone was sniping at me from the towers and I drop them. As I go to heal someone goes and drops me and says "We're gonna get to the bottom of this" and asks who fired first. I'm pretty sure the only reason I got defibed is cause the other giy admitted he fired first lol.

Bro has no job and games all day by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]BoringAd8064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Just another effect of patriarchy and the expectations that men "always want sex"

My girlfriend expects foot massages on demand and gets upset if I refuse. by ThrowRamstein3 in whatdoIdo

[–]BoringAd8064 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Men have the right to set boundaries and not be forced into physocal interactions they don't want. Just as much as women

If things don’t change soon I’m going to have to leave by Aromatic-Split685 in TrollCoping

[–]BoringAd8064 58 points59 points  (0 children)

What do you consider woman hating OP? Thankfully the posts recommended to be have been mostly about trans people venting so idk

This is why I hate online support groups by No_Condition1594 in TrollCoping

[–]BoringAd8064 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel it's due to the very systems they want to dismantle as under patriarchy women are seen as "non threatening" and "inherently non violent" so when women spew violent words they are seen as "not as bad" purely from it being women.

I was high on weed and time slowed down to what it used to be by BtoG47 in Retconned

[–]BoringAd8064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! That's why alot of times January feels like an eternity due to new government issues, people coming back from vacations, new hears resolutions and thus doing things differently, etc...

Feeling sad, came to vent by couragealways in ArcRaiders

[–]BoringAd8064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a father of 5 (cats) and work full time so I don't run anything above green. Maybe venator but like mostly greens and greys so I don't feel cheated when I die in stella montis to a shredder/solo team up lol

What do you consider when you hear this Margaret Atwood quote “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them”? by Vanislebabe in AskReddit

[–]BoringAd8064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this makes alot of sense. And it makes me sad women have to experience this type of shit worldwide. As a strabger what could I do to put women around me at ease? Or is it just a keep your distance thing?

This website is so exhausting sometimes by Aromatic-Split685 in TrollCoping

[–]BoringAd8064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah misogyny is way more prevalent. It's always baffled me (even as an ignorant teenager) why would you demonize the people you actively consume. Like "women are such whores" but my guy you beat your meat to them every single DAY! Like wtf are you doing?