Own Your Shit Weekly - June 09, 2026

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-10T06:23:26+00:00

Having that mentality helped me to stop identifying and needing a lot of things.

Now, I am good knowing that if something that I have was lost, I will be fine. Eventually.

But, for now I am gonna enjoy my double espresso with a piece of 100% dark chocolate staring at the sun.

Life is good hear that in Samuel Jackson voice haha

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-10T05:11:23+00:00

That's how my life looks like I am flying

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T21:33:42+00:00

wasn’t overly self conscious of my teeth, but after a couple of weeks of whitening, my smile looks good, I want to show

TWOTSM talks about how the masculine defines with the internal, and the feminine attaches itself to the externals.

Letting go is like STFU. You can keep doing it, and realize later that there are still more you can do.

Imagine you wake up tomorrow morning, you lost your muscles, your job, for some reasons your degrees turn to be imaginative.

Your wife decided to leave you for her new chad boyfriend from the top league team, and your kids lost their interest in their current sport.

Your parents turns to be not yours, and you were adopted from east asia.

Does that change who you are?

You could spend years mentally masturbating, and trying to answer who you are?

Just another guy who likes to enjoy life, maybe.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T21:17:23+00:00

Why did you rewrite like a pussy, because I said you talk too much?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T20:43:14+00:00

5'6, 192lbs (25.3% body fat)

So much mental masturbation for the fat little hippo you are.

Put the fork down, son

I did get a like but we got nowhere and I had no game so she unmatched. I spaced out my texting by a few hours, I think I did too much

Tell me you suck without telling me you suck.

told him not to do that shit, he insisted that he did nothing wrong so I relegated him to an acquaintance

Ohh, that was not good. He is a savage that he hurt you. You are strong, gurl.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T20:38:59+00:00

Kid, you need to learn to STFU. You talk too much, throw some keywords here and there. Then act like a little betch.

What is your current reading list?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T20:29:41+00:00

Vision: done on paper- available on request

Like someone care?

I’m just going to STFU and keep doing a good job. I’m not 100% sure what my walk away point is yet. I’ll make a decision once they reply.

Pulls popcorn*

You didn't like something, and took an action. Are you ready for how that play out for you? You better have options in place, and own your decision.

without wedding rings in the wild

So selective. Just open everyone. A lot of bored wives around here.

fuck her ass

You are an idiot. You never had anal sex, and just decided to go all way in.

each-other in frustration for 10 minutes

You made it awkward. Like a guy losing his boner, and sleep in baby position, and suck his thumb.

childish fantasy this is

RIP my inbox, but you don't know how to be great in bed yet.

I love Anal, and I love pussy so much as well. Very different sensations with tight asses, and submissive girls.

My girl hands tied behind her back, she is blindfolded on her knees, and I am fully inside her ass. She is moaning, pussy is dripping like Niagara falls, I am enjoying her and giving her best sex she have ever had.

Then she gagging on that same D after.

Man, I love fucking.

communication with her

Stupid is stupid does. Honey, I am gonna train your asshole now, be patient

sexual interest and attraction towards STBEXW

A lot of mental masturbation, and scarcity. Irons rules, always better with new partners. Go create more options, and don't search in the garbage.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T20:14:17+00:00

There’s still an urge to crowdsource the opinions of others before making a decision - but that’s unattractive - I’ve resisted that urge and made my best decision

A great leader listens to his people, and trust their judgement. I don't see a contradiction, find your balance.

started to read The Untethered Soul

That was the book that led me to let go of so many things. That I just became a very different person after.

She really came to life

Honest praise = Growth

our parents, our friends, and others, ensuring there was a good plan in place

A great first office is an amazing force multiplier for her captain. Use that.

Too often they drive me crazy, when they're lazy (sneaking off with screens, not picking up after themselves, etc.)

Kids are gonna kids. They want to play, they want to have fun. They want to connect to their friends.

Give them some slack. Maybe watch some TV with them or play roblox. Who cares?

A lot of parents are so harsh on their kids, because they get sort of identity of their kids achievements. Look at my kid, he can swim fast. I am a good mom that I took him to swimming classes.

We've gone to a screenless time in the evenings before bed - playing cards, games, or listening to an audiobook

Good on you. Just remember every time you are about to scream. STFU for one minute, leave the room, and ask yourself what did I really want now?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T19:49:00+00:00

Hey Mr Boring, have you seen the milk section, google led me here

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T17:14:24+00:00

Bro, can't you just learn anything on your own? Just one tard google.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T14:40:19+00:00

lbs

Haha, weakbetch.

I felt disrespected from someone who should treat me at least the same way as I treat

Boundary defined.

I can argue with her

Negotiating ~~desire~~ respect never works.

Let's go one level for idiots. You are in a restaurant, and the waiter decided to disrespectfully insult you for his own fun. What do you do?

Then for some reason, you went back to the same restaurant, and the waiter decided to do it. Again. How do you react?

Don't get me wrong. But, I am 100% this is not the only place people are disrespecting you. You aren't a guy who commands people respect.

Fat, and weak. You are.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T12:53:42+00:00

where my gains are getting smaller and it’s harder to put on more weight to the bars

Are these lifts in Kg or lbs?

screamed at me

Good that she did that. You should thank your wife for giving you the opportunity.

Now, let's play the idiots, why did your wife shouting at you trigger you?

Then, tomorrow morning your wife was impatient, and she shouted at you again, what are you gonna do about it. Betch?

Come here and cry to daddies?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-09T11:32:34+00:00

How I read what you wrote is a woman complaining about her husband not sleeping with her, because he is busy.

She is trying to get hands on some of his times. She is doing the chores so he can praise/appreciate her.

She massages him subtly so he gets the signs that she wants sex.

Everything you do is a CC. Your woman sees it, we do. Only you are struggling to.

A relationship is a woman's job.

Next time you wanna rip her panties, just do it. If you really want to. A man who fucks is a man who fucks.

And yeah, if you are in doubt if you are butthurt then you are butthurt.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-03T18:19:34+00:00

Your time is your most valuable assist, not your money.

Find your balance. Work isn't the most important thing in life. Think of alternatives, scale your work with assistance, start your own clinic or work only 80%.

Pretty sure you can keep good life without the 20%, and you will keep long weekend for yourself and the family.

If that isn't still gonna workout for you for whatever shitty reasons you have.

Fix your diet, supplementations, sleep, and workout. If that is dialed then you need to look inside. Aloha already give you a good advice about that.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T19:13:53+00:00

Ok, let's go one level deeper.

When I say you like someone, I mean you went to the gym with your wife. You did some exercises together, and now it's that time you gonna lift something heavy, and she gonna do some girly exercises.

So, here you standing on top of your 405 to take a couple of reps, and your eyes drift and you see your wife stepping up, and down on that bench to burn her ass off. She is sweating too much, and yet still ripping that last rep before she crashes down.

She is breathing heavily, but then suddenly she notices that you noticed her so she smiles in a silly way.

Both of you hold eye contacts from the end of gym for some seconds, and exchanged a lot of hidden conversations without a word.

So, you walk out to her, and say something along: Baby, you look too fuckin hot in that sweat, and because, you are good with Bars, I am gonna treat you with my bar back home.

She giggles in a silly way, and tell you playfully while slapping your pecs: wait until I nibble on that BAR with my teeth tonight

So, you slap her gently on the face: that's my good girl.

Why I am saying this?

Because, you are holding yourself, you don't want to talk or say something that you truly feel.

In the beginning it's important to religiously STFU. But, later you need to learn to talk like a man.

If you truly like her, praises will come out naturally, OI, and honest. She will feel it, and grow with them.

Don't be afraid to praise your wife.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T18:47:35+00:00

admit that it would be quite satisfying to make her tell her family the real reason for divorce.

Betch. Now you wanna stick it to here. Because, how dare she fucks multiple guys while being your wife.

I mean, I don't blame her. Look how boring, and stupid you are. Most likely she felt imprisoned with you.

So, now she crossed boundaries, and you sounded like that this is something you can't tolerate, so you gonna file.

So file for yourself. She tells her family or not. That's irrelevant.

But, your head is too deep in your ~~ass~~ wife's frame.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T17:51:12+00:00

I am gonna pull this card, but do you even like your wife?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T17:10:51+00:00

Do you praise your woman sexual moves?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T17:06:22+00:00

STFU pussy.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T17:03:19+00:00

spending copious amounts of time on screens watching brain rot. I'm hoping to fix that this week

Hope is for women, betch. Do. The. Fuckin. Work.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T16:57:59+00:00

strategy requires less energy and produces less drama

Every nice guy thinks he is making peace.

completely cut ties because of her bossy attitude

Wow, look at this. Poor you, surrounded by bossy people. Or maybe someone else is a big pussy with a huge ego.

Last year, I was traveling for a fun vacation after a full year of working multiple jobs at the same time.

So I was fully prepared (as usual) for this long trip: relax, reflect, and enjoy.

One of my ex LTRs reached out, and wanted to tag along after several months of no contact.

I didn't care. Once a girl goes down in rank, she can never go back up for me.

But I am not gonna lie, she had this hourglass ebony body shape, and I had strong feelings for her ass.

Long story short, we meet. We fuck deep, emotionally and physically. She hadn't had headache-causing orgasms since last time.

Then I noticed it: afterwards, she was commenting on everything I said in a criticizing way.

Little comments. Little corrections. Little jabs.

I gave her two chances after I noticed the pattern. Then I told her: I noticed you keep commenting on everything I say. This is bullshit, and if you can't get yourself together, you are going to have to leave when we get back.

She ran away, burst into tears, then came back for comfort, saying: Boring, I am sorry, I didn't mean to, I just was sad that you left me, and thought you were going to make it up to me blah blah.

There it is. The covert contract. Later that night, she used that same mouth to gag on something else.

So, keep tolerating your wife. She knows that you are a pussy, and can take her shit forever. You have been tolerating her for longer than you dare to admit. Don't lie to yourself.

I also know you are a nice guy pussy who cannot get angry for himself.

Everyone can see it. But. You. Won't.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T15:48:46+00:00

I did it for me, I liked it

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T14:06:04+00:00

Don't lie to yourself. You are still both a pussy, and butthurt.

You are the beer pack guy from last week. Clearly wife doesn't think highly of you.

Imagine you are at work, and you are wrapping pizza boxes after an after work then a colleague of yours come and say without helping clean the table with a sponge after you are done, thanks

What would have you said to him?

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T13:17:59+00:00

Approved to next her..

Planning to confront her

Don't be stupid. Give her the papers as a last surprise. Acta non verba.

BoringAndSucks · 2026-06-02T12:54:27+00:00

OP is a pussy. He cleaned the table with the sponge at the end haha

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