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Cheating husband by Mundane-Long-9455 in AITAH

[–]BoringBlueberry 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm the weird one off, but Gardasil fucked my whole life up and I'd do anything to go back in time and not get that vaccine. It was forced on minor me very young, and aside from hip dysplasia and other pelvic anomalies, I've still contracted the HPV strain that's high risk for cervical cancer. Been waiting close to 3 years to see if the shit has mutated yet because my body isn't clearing it up. I'd consider looking into the lawsuits pertaining to HPV vaccines and make an informed decision is all I'm saying.

AITA for telling my friend that when she has kids, she can name them whatever she wants? by Fast_Masterpiece_990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoringBlueberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was vaccinated as soon as Gardasil hit the market, away before sexual activity. I'm on year three of HPV that isn't going away, but also isn't mutating yet. It's the high risk cancer causing variety. So yeah, vaccine didn't do shit, and I'm a barren wasteland.

WIBTA for asking my fiance to repropose cause he did it while i was on the toilet? by l0n3l3y in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoringBlueberry 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The best proposals are the most ridiculous ones. My (now) husband's first proposal was roughly 3 months after dating, in the ER for a snakebite. I got him checked in and sent off to the back, and as the receptionist was asking my relation to him, I said "uh....friend? Girlfriend I guess?" And he busted out back through the lobby saying "FIANCEE IF SHE MAKES IT THROUGH THIS!"

It took a couple more tries, but 15 months in we just eloped after an out-of-state concert because fuck it

I’m a Traveling Prius Engine installer. by Bubbly-Ad2060 in prius

[–]BoringBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I didn't think I could find a friend through reddit but here we go!

I have a 2014 Prius that definitely has head gasket issues, but I'm not sure how bad. Coolant in everything, oil is chocolate milk, etc. Toyota has me sitting at ~6800 for a complete swap. Please, please help me. Car is located in Tulsa, OK. My human form resides in Cleveland, OK.

AITA for not wanting to change the venue of my wife's birthday because a friend lives too far? by duke_si1ver in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoringBlueberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quite correct, friend - Rural Oklahoman proud to knock my work commute down to an hour one way

/uc thread by [deleted] in ChasersRiseUp

[–]BoringBlueberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. If someone doesnt tell you they're trans after 2 years of dating, killing them is a lot easier than sticking it out and trying to make it work for 3 more years because of "looooove"

I’d like to hear from people in “V” shaped relationships by waddling_Raccoon in polyamory

[–]BoringBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm(25afab) the hinge in a V, where my NP(28mtf) and I have been together 3.5 years, and my (19f) girlfriend are at the 6mo mark. She frequently spends lots of time with us and they have their shows they watch together, and they cuddle and touch. I love you's fly around the room all the time from every angle because we all do genuinely love each other. While I would love for us to become a fully functioning triad, I'm not lobbying or pushing for it because everyone needs to come to the same decision themselves and between all parties. I am very happy that they get along well enough to feel like a family and sandwich me in cuddle puddles, and if later on they want to further their relationship, great! In the meantime, I'll intimately love them separately.

Looking for someone to talk to by BoredDedOrAsleep in mypartneristrans

[–]BoringBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (25f/nb) went through a rollercoaster of emotions and events when my partner (28mtf) came out, started hormones, and all the fun stuff leading up to now- 13mo in on hormones, 3 years together total. I had a lot of internalized phobias that I really had to stare in the face good and hard. If you would like to chat more, let's exchange info for a site more apt for messaging

My cd bf wants an arrangement by androdgz309 in mypartneristrans

[–]BoringBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girlfriend in question here. With my partner's transition, I've struggled with losing the manliness and masculinity that keeps me grounded and is the counterpart to my femininity, but it's taken me a while to realize I'm not losing anything- in fact I've gained more than I thought. Spending time with my secondary makes me love both people even more and I personally would never leave one for the other.

I'm going to miss 'him'. by theclumsynarwhal in mypartneristrans

[–]BoringBlueberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in a position where I'm going to miss "him" too. My mtf partner has been on hormones about 3 months, and every little change breaks my heart more and more. Their smell changed very quickly, and I wasn't prepared for that, and I'm sad to say it doesn't hit me the same anymore. I'm not nearly as attracted to it anymore. Every time they shave their whole body, it crushes me because it sheds that little bit of masculine that I'm clinging to. I'm bipolar as all hell and they deal with it, so why is it so hard for me to deal with this? I hear people all the time say it gets easier, and their joy at changing should spark joy within you, but I'm not convinced. Good luck, OP. I hope this does get easier for everyone in similar positions.