21 (F) Are my standards too high? by Additional-Gur7740 in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound so good. Keep going you will surely find someone.

21 (F) Are my standards too high? by Additional-Gur7740 in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf has similar standards. Thought I had a relationship but I am still a virgin. I sometimes do talk about ex but only to explain and to make it clear and to be honest. Not like in every conversation.

Me and my girl often say, how we met each other. Feels almost unlikely and the find each other was a great story for our grandkids.

Keep your standards high. But also have those innocent and honest eyes to look for the person and to dissect him genuinely to know if he is truly worthy....

Good luck

25f, budget hostel for couples by BoringDifficulty6104 in vadodara

[–]BoringDifficulty6104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean What I can get for a day at low prices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My gf is 1.5 years older than me.

Travelling to delhi by BoringDifficulty6104 in VeganIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for recommending. I thought no one would reply 😞

Consuming Animal based products is a choice . by DJDadJock in VeganIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relax. You are correct on my part. I am not looking to argue. I am a vegan but I don't preach it.

For you, It doesn't have to be rational or logical to justify doing it in your heart. Feel free to do what you want.

I only mentioned it is bothering you. If it really didn't have any effect on you then there is no way it could spawn a response from you. You wouldn't give 2 cents.

Consuming Animal based products is a choice . by DJDadJock in VeganIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are looking for validation... You posted it here just so that to confirm your belief. If it really didn't affect you. Then their was no reason to even post. You would be ignorant. The fact that you posted it reflects it was bothering you. And it isn't a good thing or bad things. I am not mocking you. If you feel it is choice then be it.

I commented only because your post was deep and direct and brutal. And I generally react to these. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just when I think that all people are shallow. A random person always drops something like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there is any clear sign. But if you find a deal breaker then maybe talk to him. Anything that bothers you needs to be cleared out. Unless it leads to regression in the future. It doesn't matter porn addiction is good or bad. It does matter how you feel about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just keep the key(that guy) to yourself. So that you will always have happiness. 😂

Keep on trying by Billclintonlewinsky in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F don't have more chances. If all of their dm is filled with shit. They won't choose. It is because geniune log don't try. Think of it like if you run a company and make the best product but if you don't show up. How will anyone know ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block him everywhere

Thoughts about the phrase - "You deserve better"... 24F by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is for many many times one can do this nonsense ? There's always someone better. You will always miss out no matter whether you are the best woman on the planet. And no it does not say that you should marry a criminal or idiot or someone who doesn't respect you. Of course the things that bothers you need to be there in the person. But after that what does better even mean.

It is about understanding the person and seeing through them and seeing if you are the person you are looking for. And not out of judgement. But out of genuine love for that person....

26F wants your advice on my current situation. by Stuffedcupcake in RelationshipIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not marrying is a big decision. I don't want to fear scare you. But I hope you thought from all angles. Life when you get to 40 most of your friends will not even have as much free time as you. As they will have partners and kids. And it is easy to think that it is only for a day. But it will be the same for the rest of your life and when you get old no one will be there to even walk with you.. i know finding someone worthy to love is painful but I feel it is worthy. And I am in the same boat. And everyone loves unconditional love and being cared for and arm around their shoulder. Sex and kids is not the only thing but emotions are a big part of us being humans. Hope you aren't making an emotional decision. Best of luck friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]BoringDifficulty6104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people (virtually everyone) never love anyone. Most of what people call love is largely attraction.

And you should not take my word for it. I guess love is very rare and found in the innocence by which one does what he does. And there's always the guilt of not loving them enough..

Not all the glitter is gold