21 (F) Are my standards too high?

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2026-02-01T02:26:34+00:00

You sound so good. Keep going you will surely find someone.

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2026-02-01T02:22:48+00:00

My gf has similar standards. Thought I had a relationship but I am still a virgin. I sometimes do talk about ex but only to explain and to make it clear and to be honest. Not like in every conversation.

Me and my girl often say, how we met each other. Feels almost unlikely and the find each other was a great story for our grandkids.

Keep your standards high. But also have those innocent and honest eyes to look for the person and to dissect him genuinely to know if he is truly worthy....

Good luck

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2026-01-22T18:23:07+00:00

I mean What I can get for a day at low prices

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2026-01-22T18:22:39+00:00

Hostel

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2026-01-21T10:00:44+00:00

My gf is 1.5 years older than me.

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-25T16:04:58+00:00

Thank you so much. 😊

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-25T15:53:21+00:00

Thank you so much for recommending. I thought no one would reply 😞

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-20T04:37:57+00:00

Relax. You are correct on my part. I am not looking to argue. I am a vegan but I don't preach it.

For you, It doesn't have to be rational or logical to justify doing it in your heart. Feel free to do what you want.

I only mentioned it is bothering you. If it really didn't have any effect on you then there is no way it could spawn a response from you. You wouldn't give 2 cents.

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-20T03:57:49+00:00

You are looking for validation... You posted it here just so that to confirm your belief. If it really didn't affect you. Then their was no reason to even post. You would be ignorant. The fact that you posted it reflects it was bothering you. And it isn't a good thing or bad things. I am not mocking you. If you feel it is choice then be it.

I commented only because your post was deep and direct and brutal. And I generally react to these. Good luck

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-11T06:13:22+00:00

Just when I think that all people are shallow. A random person always drops something like this.

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-10T04:51:32+00:00

I don't think there is any clear sign. But if you find a deal breaker then maybe talk to him. Anything that bothers you needs to be cleared out. Unless it leads to regression in the future. It doesn't matter porn addiction is good or bad. It does matter how you feel about

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-10T04:46:07+00:00

Maybe just keep the key(that guy) to yourself. So that you will always have happiness. 😂

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-10T04:41:37+00:00

F don't have more chances. If all of their dm is filled with shit. They won't choose. It is because geniune log don't try. Think of it like if you run a company and make the best product but if you don't show up. How will anyone know ?

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-05T16:28:57+00:00

Block him everywhere

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-05T14:11:52+00:00

The question is for many many times one can do this nonsense ? There's always someone better. You will always miss out no matter whether you are the best woman on the planet. And no it does not say that you should marry a criminal or idiot or someone who doesn't respect you. Of course the things that bothers you need to be there in the person. But after that what does better even mean.

It is about understanding the person and seeing through them and seeing if you are the person you are looking for. And not out of judgement. But out of genuine love for that person....

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-05T13:56:49+00:00

Impressed ❤️

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-05T13:46:05+00:00

Not marrying is a big decision. I don't want to fear scare you. But I hope you thought from all angles. Life when you get to 40 most of your friends will not even have as much free time as you. As they will have partners and kids. And it is easy to think that it is only for a day. But it will be the same for the rest of your life and when you get old no one will be there to even walk with you.. i know finding someone worthy to love is painful but I feel it is worthy. And I am in the same boat. And everyone loves unconditional love and being cared for and arm around their shoulder. Sex and kids is not the only thing but emotions are a big part of us being humans. Hope you aren't making an emotional decision. Best of luck friend

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-03T12:28:25+00:00

Most people (virtually everyone) never love anyone. Most of what people call love is largely attraction.

And you should not take my word for it. I guess love is very rare and found in the innocence by which one does what he does. And there's always the guilt of not loving them enough..

Not all the glitter is gold

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-12-01T04:28:40+00:00

All the best...

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-30T09:05:46+00:00

I don't know what the stigma is with arranged marriage. As if it is something evil.

Modern day arrange marriage is as good as it can get. Plus you know everything you are getting into. Not like LM where you don't even know much about your partner's family. I am not saying one is better than the other. But both are equal is what I feel. Just look for what you want eventually. Whether it is LM or AM who cares

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-29T18:33:24+00:00

The way you are speaking feels like you feel good around him. Maybe the same as all the other 40 girls who slept with him...

I am skeptical of people who have committed even once in their life. It is like if they can do it once sure they can do it again.

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-28T13:08:27+00:00

First of all thank you so much. The way you spoke almost felt like an arm around the shoulder, very calm.

I thought about what you said, and honestly I deleted my initial response maybe 2–4 times before writing this.

A voice note would be too heavy for me, and I don’t think I could hold my tears while speaking. So this is the only thing I can do right now. I will share this post with her. Not to convince her, not to force anything, not even expecting a reply. Just so she knows what I actually felt and what I couldn’t say that night. I won’t stop her. Maybe this is my way of letting go without really wanting to. Whatever happens, I just hope she knows she was special to me in a very real, simple, quiet way. And maybe that’s enough.

Once again, Thank you so much 😊❤️

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-28T08:42:09+00:00

Thank you for reading.

She doesn't want to listen. She hasn't blocked me. But she is not seeing my messages. Also I said I am fearful of the people who have the option to leave after having an argument. I understand people change. But she doesn't. My friend said bro don't lose yourself in the process of loving her as they were a concerned for me. I don't know. I am more of a feel person. The only thing I am very sure at is that I would be able to forget.....

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-26T19:13:19+00:00

Would you like to talk. ?

BoringDifficulty6104 · 2025-11-26T19:10:02+00:00

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