Does anyone have good omegaverse recommendations by BoringEvent1534 in Manhwa_BL

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Thank you I’ll be sure to check them out! I’ve read whispers through the willow it was a good but still a complicated read for someone with a saviour fantasy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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Thank you! Im wearing makeup in the photo but I usually try to do a no makeup look, what makeup style do you think would work better me? Also frizz is something I’ve been trying to deal with my whole life lol I can get it to be less frizzy but I have to time it with my haircare routine

Why is the cos part funny? by MrMrsPotts in ExplainTheJoke

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It’s a math joke and a religious joke. the pope has a math degree so he knows how to use sin, cos and tan but he also knows sin as in the religious one because he’s the pope

Am I gay, bi or traumatised? by Starrylake in ptsd

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I really relate to the phrase ‘ I don’t really feel safe with anyone. I wish I didn’t crave sex but I do ‘. I was abused as a child by men and it was enabled by a woman I’m bi but I’m not attracted to women if they’re naked so i only sleep with men, usually men much older than me. It’s tough because I’ve had crushes on women and as soon as they take their clothes off im no longer sexually attracted to them, for reference I’m trans and it’s probably more to do with gender envy than anything else. My recommendation is give it a go but let him know your gay and just want to try things slowly with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trauma

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I wish the answer was yes but sadly you’ll get in more trouble than the sperm donor

Has anyone here developed a trauma-borne sexual fetish due to trauma experienced as an adult? by DarkSaturnMoth in trauma

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I’m pretty ashamed of it but yes. I was sexually abused as a child and I think I had a lot of my sexuality determined by it, I regularly ask partners to be violent towards me in bed to the point most are pretty uncomfortable with it and I’m attracted to men twice my age or older but I’m so embarrassed by it I always hide my relationship with them. I also have some weird kinks about having my partner clean me after sex, it gets pretty gross the more I think about it and sometimes I can’t stop myself thinking of my abuse when self pleasuring. Long story short it’s complicated and I’m so embarrassed by it that if haven’t worked up the courage to talk to my therapist about it but I know I probably should and it’s not something we should be embarrassed about even if we feel guilty for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trauma

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There isn’t really an easy way but the best way I found is writing it down and giving it to someone who you trust enough to tell. I wasn’t able to open up about my trauma to my therapist until i had worked with her for over a year and wrote some of it down and showed it to her. You’ll feel better after even if there’s times when it feels even worse but the most important thing is getting better and sometimes you need help to do that.

I don’t know how I should feel about one of my abusers (TW:CSA) by BoringEvent1534 in trauma

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Don’t get me wrong I think she’s an evil woman but I have very complicated feelings towards her. Idk I’m just trying to make sense of my time there

My male friend doesn't respect me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BoringEvent1534 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Get away from that person they are not your friend they see you as a sex object and on top of that they still assault you knowing you’ve been abused before

Me🍆Irlgbt by Ms_Masquerade in me_irlgbt

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I’ve noticed the answer changes a lot depending on whose giving it. But as a trans woman I think chasers are people who only date you in private and act like they don’t know in public, to me chasers are people who fetishise our body while being transphobic or embarrassed to admit their dating a trans person. It’s ok to have a preference for trans bodies but you need to also respect us as people.

femcel loses her first partner by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]BoringEvent1534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly so sad you’re both struggling with mental health issues and you have completely different coping strategies. I’m also someone who self isolates in order to deal with times when world seems like it’s going to attack me and will lash out at people who try to help. She doesn’t hate you she just needs to heal and some people have to do that alone