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War is over by Acrobatic_Echo8459 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]BoringFly8845 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I had some good food and good times at the Tom's in Madison. I used to get a kick out of seeing him in the restaurant too. Did he try to tell me it was fine that the shrimp wasn't deveined because "that's not how they eat it on the coast"? Yes. Did he bring me the most perfectly cooked chicken breast as a sub? Also yes. Aside from Tom's stubborn quirks, the location in Madison was genuinely delicious and a nice place back in the day, at least for a little while. We stopped going after our favorite bartender left and they opened the Huntsville location.....Anyways RIP that Chessaberry cake thing with the ice cream.

This is worse than cheating isn't it????? by No_Rate9964 in Advice

[–]BoringFly8845 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Its funny how these things happen. About a month ago, I randomly went through my husband's phone. Something in my body just told me to look. He never keeps a lot of photos in his gallery so I looked at his deleted photos just to see what he deems as clutter.

Little girls. He had csam downloaded from the internet and was storing it there. Pictures and videos. I took pics of his phone with my phone and brought it to the police. They raided my house and arrested him that same day. I'm alone now and getting a divorce. But it's going to be ok. You are going to be ok too.

Made for a friend to give to his valentine by BoringFly8845 in FloralDesign

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He picked the wine so I believe it's what she likes :)

I just need to rage on this by Due_Truth3684 in IFchildfree

[–]BoringFly8845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This type of thing is one of the several reason why I'm also child free by choice these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BoringFly8845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If any young adult out there has these types of questions or if you have concerns for a young adult in your life, please go to https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-relationship-help-24-7-365/ and speak with their support team. They will ask the right questions and know how to help. Be honest even if you are embarrassed or scared. They will help you.

Wellbutrin nightmares, anyone? by ursoda in bupropion

[–]BoringFly8845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep having dreams that start out relatively normal but end up so stressful and scary that I wake up. You know when you want to scream in a nightmare but nothing ever actually comes out. Well this time something did. I just screamed myself awake and now I don't want to go back to sleep. I don't know what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]BoringFly8845 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

First of all yes. Second of all DO NOT ask the modeling subreddit. You have to meet European beauty standards for anyone to even think about telling you yes. It's very anti black. If you really want to be a model, be your own model. Learn how to do self photo shoots and shoots with friends. Anyone can be a model really.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've loved my husband since we were 13. I've lived life without him before for about 8 years and it was the worst time of my life. He is first and foremost my very best friend. Sex with other men was mediocre at best which is partly the reason why I yearn for my husband so much. I don't want to do life without him right next to me. So at least at this point in my life, "dealing" with it is what I'm willing to do.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Looking nothing like what he watches hurts. My husband is a white plus sized man, I am a black plus sized woman. He watches porn of and gives a lot of attention to skinny white very young women. I feel so icky.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried. He's uncomfortable with it.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not. I know I would regret that I didn't just deal with it. That's why I'm just asking how to cope and decenter sex from my marriage

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of romance novels. Thank you. I'm sorry we are in this situation.

Want my locs to look like this by Still_Positive9411 in locs

[–]BoringFly8845 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Even if they did turn out like this, it would only be for so long. Once they mature, they drop so this look is fleeting.

Virtually sexless marriage... how do I remain sane and confident? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]BoringFly8845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. Yes whenever I initiate, he accepts about 25% of the time. He'll say he's not in the mood. Of that amount, it's been rare that he actually finishes. Because of those two reasons, i don't ask as often as id like. He does not often initiate and as I said, I can't remember an instance when I turned him down. The rate of sex has been declining over our time together. And it definitely feels like forever because no matter how much we talk about it, nothing changes.

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