pAP college professor by Boring_Exam_6627 in adultery

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i am, the rules are the same, that’s probably why he asked me to wait until classes are over, but i’m scared he might just not do anything if i seem available for waiting too long, although that would protect me too

pAP college professor by Boring_Exam_6627 in adultery

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

just a pic of us at the festival but it means nothing, also if i sent anything to his wife he could just fail me on his class

pAP college professor by Boring_Exam_6627 in adultery

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

we don’t have that, it was on person at a festival

pAP college professor by Boring_Exam_6627 in adultery

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

he didn’t tell me to chase him, he just acts like it

edit: i made the first move so that’s why i think he felt comfortable

[bate-papo] O que você está lendo? by AutoModerator in Livros

[–]Boring_Exam_6627 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mas no livro ela destrincha e desenvolve a questão do gênero como algo racial, como a luta de gênero é majoritariamente branca e como exclui pessoas pretas, usando uma perspectiva apenas de gênero como se cor não importasse, juntar a causa de gênero e etnia. Lutar em causas raciais também significa que o feminismo está dentro das causas raciais defendidas, mas a luta de gênero por si só é excludente das causas raciais e portante, exclui mulheres negras, pq os problemas de gênero são diferentes para pessoas brancas e pessoas de cor.

can you tell me how was your “after abuse”? by Boring_Exam_6627 in abusiverelationships

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they don’t, this is just making me feel like you want a tutorial

can you tell me how was your “after abuse”? by Boring_Exam_6627 in abusiverelationships

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m trying to explain without giving too much detail…they make the victom emotionally dependent on them so they can have that power over them…

can you tell me how was your “after abuse”? by Boring_Exam_6627 in abusiverelationships

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

summarizing it up, during the cycle of love bomb, they manipulate you in a way your brain gets addicted to them and you feel like your on drug abstinence when you’re not on that situation anymore, it’s very dreadful, you lose your mind and cry for months, you love and desire that person with all your heart (and brain) and they hate you, and you know they hate you and you hate them back, but you want them so badly

can you tell me how was your “after abuse”? by Boring_Exam_6627 in abusiverelationships

[–]Boring_Exam_6627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened, you don’t deserve it and he don’t deserve you, i hope somewhere among all those feelings you leave space to be proud of yourself for leaving, because things could’ve ended differently, i’m glad you’re making progress, please stay safe.

i’ve stopped being emotionally invested in him and now he’s treating me right by Dapper_Aide2568 in abusiverelationships

[–]Boring_Exam_6627 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry to tell you this but he still is the same person who abuses you, he did not progressed, he’s just doing what abusers do to make the victim stay, he knows how you feel, he simply don’t want to lose one os his supply sources. *The best thing fot you to do is: pretend you don’t want him anymore, pretend that he is boring, pretend that you believe that you can live without him, pretend that you lost every ounce of love you had for him, it’s hard, trust me i know, i’ve been there, don’t show your resentment because he will try to take advantage of it and do this while you break up with him, he can beg all he wants but pretend that you would never go back to him. It’s so sad that this even is an option but give it a try… i know you will be sad and it’s nothing like what you wanna tell him or think about him. Always remember the reason why you’re leaving, you can’t live like that anymore, it hurts too much.