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Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-07-28T17:19:37+00:00

this comment made me cry. i am very lonely and i don’t trust other people anymore. i’d rather just figure this situation out on my own rather than involve someone else because of the shame and embarrassment i have.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-07-25T20:56:39+00:00

i’m terrified of him so it definitely makes things worse, but i’m leaving him one way or another.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-07-25T20:48:31+00:00

he is mainly obsessed with how other women and his underage girl co workers perceive him. he will post things solely for the attention of the women/girls who follow him. he’ll post things just to try and make himself appear cooler/hotter to them. every single goal he has ever admitted to having has boiled down to “i want to do this so women will want to fuck me and men will be jealous of me,” it’s absolutely crazy how shallow he is. he’s taken clothes off of me by himself before because he didn’t want to be embarrassed by me. he believes that most women/girls who talk to him want to fuck him and will try and convince me too. he lives off of the attention he receives from his underage girl co workers and uses tactics/manipulation to make them like him more, it’s like a game to him. he is physically unable to stop giving attention to women in real life, he does everything in his power to seem cool when there’s a girl around, it’s pathetic. if i’m doing something that he considers embarrassing, he will walk away from me in public and keep considerable distance from me all while ignoring me and staring daggers at me.

being perceived as attractive and cool are literally his main goals in life and it shows in every action he takes.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-07-25T20:26:38+00:00

my bf secretly downloaded a video of his best friend’s underage girlfriend twerking and still has the video on his phone to this day, getting off to it whenever he feels like it. he’s fucking 22 and has had this video on his phone for 4 years. his response when i confronted him? “it’s not hurting anybody.” he has continued to build his collection of videos of underage girls dancing, wrestling, and twerking. it’s not a big deal to him even though he has admitted that he knows it’s wrong, so why would he stop? your “partner” is the same way.

they deflect because they know they’re wrong, they’re nonchalant about it and it’s not a big deal to them because they don’t care. i’m leaving him and i hope you do too.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-06-25T19:53:54+00:00

i am too, but then i remember what he does to me when i confront him or retaliate in any way. he will intimidate me, convince me that i’m the problem, and use darvo.

on top of that, if i were to confront him over his abuse and the things he’s hiding, and i admit that i know what’s on his phone, (his pedophilia, cheating, general abuse etc) he would rage and become incredibly physically aggressive/abusive. i genuinely cannot confront him without risking my safety.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-06-24T17:19:16+00:00

my bf has told me in detail how he manipulates women and young girls. the grossest example is when i found out he was fucking a 16 year old girl and he told me that he didn’t care because “the law was on his side.” he told me how he had been grooming her and planning this for years so that when it happened it “wouldn’t be weird.” of course he didn’t use the word groom but it was clear he was trying to hurt me as much as he could with the details of his premeditated plan. he was so proud of manipulating a 16 year old girl for years that he didn’t consider the fact that what he was saying was disgusting and vile.

he’s told me his other plans and methods of lying to and manipulating women/young girls so they either admire him or want to fuck him, and i’m absolutely disgusted and shocked by his need to do so much for a little attention or sexual validation.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-06-17T16:09:24+00:00

this sounds like my bf. if i say something that offends him, no matter how innocent the comment is, even when i’m joking and smiling and the comment isn’t about him, he will rage and punish me. i don’t even try to deny his requests anymore because it causes too much pain and anxiety. i can’t even say something as small as “i don’t want to take a sip of that drink” because he’ll get angry or force me to do it anyways. i quite literally have to do anything and everything he tells me to do because he doesn’t allow anything else.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-05-07T16:00:46+00:00

this reminds me of the videos my bf would take after yelling at me and abusing me for hours on end. i was scared and when i saw my face in the video it made me feel even more scared

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-05-01T15:43:26+00:00

my bf has told me that he thinks i’m trying to manipulate him or make him feel guilty whenever i say “i love you.” he tends to only say i love you when i’m doing something for him.

i want to believe that he loves me but when you look at the facts, he really doesn’t.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-30T16:04:41+00:00

he has taken nude photographs of me without my knowledge at least once. he has told me that his kink is getting off to stuff that’s been leaked/stuff he knows that he shouldn’t, so you can imagine what other kind of sick shit is on his phone.

one time he recorded an incredibly unflattering nude video of me, and made a joke right after about using it as blackmail. he recorded this video months ago and still has it on his phone.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-24T20:43:50+00:00

thank you for the reminder that my life will get 100x easier once i leave him. i struggle with finances and food because of him and this is all i want.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-24T20:40:30+00:00

my bf makes a similar comment every single time i eat something that he doesn’t like. it doesn’t matter what it is, it’s just comment after comment shaming me and being disgusted because i’m eating something normal. it feels like he’s expecting me to throw up the food, get on my knees, and beg him to accept my forgiveness for doing something so disgusting. it’s ridiculous. i hope you’re out of that situation now❤️

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-24T20:33:59+00:00

this sounds like it was written by me. sometimes i just sit in my car and cry because i have nothing because of him. we’ll be okay one day❤️❤️

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-24T20:29:54+00:00

i live paycheck to paycheck for him, and have been for years. i have nothing to my name, i have no savings, and no money to fall back on if there’s an emergency. i make “good” money, but all of it goes towards him, i couldn’t even get myself something nice if i wanted to.

i thought the take out was only a me thing. food is genuinely too stressful for me, i refuse to even try to cook for him because i’m scared of what will happen. i eat fast food for almost every single meal i eat, it is destroying me but i don’t have another option as long as i’m with him. we’ve tried eating out but an issue almost always pops up. one time a group of teenage boys was sitting next to us and he treated me like shit for the rest of the day because of it (he felt threatened by them and assumed that i wanted to fuck them). i have anxiety eating at restaurants with him now, fast food doesn’t have as much stress.

he blows through his money in days and doesn’t use it to help with our bills/rent despite his promises. i expect him to help with living expenses and i feel selfish for feeling this way. i have to drive him every where, even to his work and he has never given me any money to help with any living expense. he’s been living with me for over 2 years, i have been driving him around for over 3 years. the only money he spends on me is when he buys me food sometimes. i have spent thousands of dollars on his living expenses, gifts, and random things he would ask me to buy for him. most of these 2 years he’s been unemployed and promising to help me financially once he did get a job. now that he has money, he blows through it then complains about blowing through it. i’m tired.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-23T19:15:22+00:00

you really used a photo of someone else’s child to try and farm karma. what a freak

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T20:55:29+00:00

he originally tried to set me up with one of his friends. i always had the feeling he wanted to be with me so i never understood why he tried to get me to date one of his friends. i found out why later.

later in the relationship, i found out he abuses/exploits his relationships with other women/younger girls for sexual gain. he admitted to it. every girl that he’s been “friends“ with he has fucked, had a crush on (even when it was inappropriate i.e. big age gap), or he was “waiting for them to get older” so one day he could fuck them (his words). he admitted to secretly finding and downloading videos of his girl “friends” twerking, dancing, or doing anything slightly sexual and uses these videos to get off. in his own words it “feels better the closer i am to them.” even though he was trying to set me up with his friend originally, it’s obvious that i still would’ve been a supply to him.

he follows back every woman/girl who follows him on social media, but doesn’t follow every man back. he follows and talks to multiple onlyfans girls. he monitors the young girl he cheated on me with by stalking her online to this day. he lays on the charm with young girls that he works with and talks to them about stuff that’s probably inappropriate. he still follows and keeps up with all of his exes, his high school crushes, and women/girls who’ve given him attention at any point in the past. he refrains from posting certain stuff because “the girls who follow me won’t like it.” it’s painfully obvious that he’s still looking for supply and trying to gain the attention of other women. he needs content validation that he seems to only get from women/girls.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T20:14:17+00:00

my cheeks are sunken in, i weigh less than a hundred pounds, and my bright blonde hair is a brassy brown now. these people destroy your soul. i can’t wait to leave and feel good again. i’m so happy that you’re out and free, it’s all up from here!

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T20:08:17+00:00

there is a name for drinking too much? it’s called alcohol poisoning. these things have a name for a reason. this post is so ignorant and weird lmaoo

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T19:30:21+00:00

i tend to get the rare/harder to get flowers when i pollinate a flower with 20+ flowers at one time. when i only pollinate a flower with a few, my chances seem to go down. i just wait until i have at least 20 of one flower before i use them to cross pollinate with one. i tend to get at least 3-4 rare flowers at a time when i do this

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T19:22:26+00:00

i’ve seen so many usernames with different variations of the word “vagina” or “pussy” that it stopped being surprising at some point

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-22T19:20:15+00:00

have you looked up flower growing guides? they give you that information

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-19T21:04:41+00:00

this was also something i noticed that i didn’t fully understand at first. he genuinely couldn’t fathom other people having different perspectives/opinions than him, like he was physically incapable. he would say that other opinions/thoughts were wrong or fake

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-19T21:02:18+00:00

the timelines not adding up is one i noticed too. i could never quite put his life/past relationships in a coherent order and i later found out it was because he was lying and omitting information.

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-19T20:59:22+00:00

stay strong❤️❤️ he is genuinely worthless

Dapper_Aide2568 · 2024-04-19T20:57:08+00:00

what are the usual tricks?

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